I've been seeing a guy for three months. I'm 30 he's 34. We really hit it off on all levels, he's so thoughtful, fixes everything in my house,texts me throughout the day, just very thoughtful.I thought it was nice to have a guy not pressure me into a serious relationship but now after brining up the exclusivity talk he says he is not ready.a)because he got out of a 5 yr relationship 1 yr ago and wants to be sure before getting into another and b)he is going away for military training due to a promotion for 8 months in May and is scared because his last gf freaked out whenever he left. I've never had a guy want to take it slow so it concerns me.I'm trying to be patient but it scares me to emotionally invest and risk getting hurt. He's really good to me, this is really the only issue but to me it's a big one.I feel like we could have a really good thing but fear if he isn't sure now, he will never be. How long should I give him? Suggestions on how to deal with him? I feel sort of lost.Adults please read...looking for advice on a sticky dating situation...thank you!?
Wow...this is a tough one, but if he said himself he is not ready for anything serious, than you pretty much have your answer there. Would you be able to deal with it when he leaves for 8mths...let me tell you, from experience,its very tough being with a military guy especially when he's away. Just enjoy what time you have with him, live for the moment, and if you guys are still together when he gets back, than you know this was meant to be. Good luck!Adults please read...looking for advice on a sticky dating situation...thank you!?
You should take it slow. It's about time! Just let it go - why do you feel to put a ';rush'; on things?!?!
If you be patient, you are probably better off ending it before your relationship gets too serious. You shouldn't try to change yourself or him for the relationship to work.
Good Luck!
He's telling you that you are going to get hurt if you invest. He wants his freedom when he is away. He wants you on his term but you know that's not the way it works. Ask yourself, ';What would a woman with self respect, confidence and a few good men insight do?'; She'd move on! Don't screw him anymore. How can you have a relationship with a guy that's not there most of the year? You know you can't. I can hear it in your writings. And don't buy into that, ';I just got out of a long relationship crap!'; It's just an excuse. Believe me!!!! There's a million guys out there that would love to fix your pipes! His loss, bu-bye! Move on, girlfriend! You deserve better.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
i need a little advice on this internet dating/talking thing. I have had a set mind on things before i got a myspace and facebook that it will just be for entertainment and to stay in contact with friends. but there is this one guy on there that i have been chatting with for 3 months who is 20 years old, a junior in college, seems to be Intelligent and a very person, but you never know, he could be a pervert, some where in his 40's and jack's off to my pictures. haha. I went through his friends list and saw that there were plenty of guy friends on his page, which indicates that he is somewhat real, for guys would not add another guy to their page who they do not know. Im just a little skeptical on if i should give out my # then meet him. Im also scared about the fact that they if it is the person on the pics he could just be photogenic and be hideous in person. What do you think? have you ever talked to someone off of the internet and meet up with them? Did they look exactly like their pics?Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
i need a little advice on this internet dating/talking thing. I have had a set mind on things before i got a myspace and facebook that it will just be for entertainment and to stay in contact with friends. but there is this one guy on there that i have been chatting with for 3 months who is 20 years old, a junior in college, seems to be Intelligent and a very person, but you never know, he could be a pervert, some where in his 40's and jack's off to my pictures. haha. I went through his friends list and saw that there were plenty of guy friends on his page, which indicates that he is somewhat real, for guys would not add another guy to their page who they do not know. Im just a little skeptical on if i should give out my # then meet him. Im also scared about the fact that they if it is the person on the pics he could just be photogenic and be hideous in person. What do you think? have you ever talked to someone off of the internet and meet up with them? Did they look exactly like their pics?Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
I find them to be very loving caring and passionate. I know most don't marry outside their own race (I am a mixture of mostly blk,wht, native Am), I am far from being a kid and the older men seem more open and willing. Yes, they are smaller in the plumbing area, but other talents make up for that. If any one has some good advice for me it would be great. I currently have a guy to which we are building a friendship. If it goes further I want to be prepared, or know what to expect.I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
Some like to date but will not marry. I had a guy play me and my best friend, but we got him back. Some are real freaky, like any other man so be careful.
But over all they are cute and nice.I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
my best friend at one point was a japanese/german guy, looked more japanese, who may as well have been my boyfriend. they are just like other guys, nothing special you need to know about them. they eat interesting food though, sometimes they like you to try it. without him, i never would have tried urchin i think it was. so i think thats all =]
so i guess it's true, white girls have smaller brains than other humans
Some like to date but will not marry. I had a guy play me and my best friend, but we got him back. Some are real freaky, like any other man so be careful.
But over all they are cute and nice.I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
my best friend at one point was a japanese/german guy, looked more japanese, who may as well have been my boyfriend. they are just like other guys, nothing special you need to know about them. they eat interesting food though, sometimes they like you to try it. without him, i never would have tried urchin i think it was. so i think thats all =]
so i guess it's true, white girls have smaller brains than other humans
What should i do? advice with guys and dating?
okay there's this guy i REALLY like. and he told my best friend he wants to ask me out (apparently he's liked me for a while).
but there are some major problems. my parents would probably murder me if they found out. no joke.
and i honestly don't see the point in going out right now (im a sophomore in HS). i personally can't see what good it would do. if any.
but he's so different and hes like practically perfect for me you could say. i feel like i can't say yes to him (i'd feel guilty if i snuck around with him) and i dont want to hold him back. but theres this part of me that doesn't want him to move on from me.
what should i tell him?What should i do? advice with guys and dating?
Tell him the truth about what you feel. And if he really likes you, he'll probably understand.
And I know what you mean about the parents. I would try to reason with them and bring it up randomly one night with the one parent that you're closest to.
Hope this helps!
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but there are some major problems. my parents would probably murder me if they found out. no joke.
and i honestly don't see the point in going out right now (im a sophomore in HS). i personally can't see what good it would do. if any.
but he's so different and hes like practically perfect for me you could say. i feel like i can't say yes to him (i'd feel guilty if i snuck around with him) and i dont want to hold him back. but theres this part of me that doesn't want him to move on from me.
what should i tell him?What should i do? advice with guys and dating?
Tell him the truth about what you feel. And if he really likes you, he'll probably understand.
And I know what you mean about the parents. I would try to reason with them and bring it up randomly one night with the one parent that you're closest to.
Hope this helps!
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I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I just started dating this guy today and I'm still not sure if it's really what I want. I mean he makes me happy and he's very sweet, but I kind of think I still have feelings for my ex. I thought dating my current boyfriend would help me get my mind off of my ex, well I told my mom about it and she started asking me a lot of questions. Some questions I really didn't know the answer to I answered with an ';I don't know'; and she got all mad and asked when our (her and my) relationship started going downhill. Now she won't speak to me... I don't know what to do...should I break up with my boyfriend or just let things go? Please, any advice is appreciated!!I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
So ive been dating a boy we will call him jason for 9 months on saturday. When we first started dating it was really nice and wonderful. It still is i love him he is just really immature and really sexual and it is kind of obnoxious.
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
oh well talk to him some more
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
GO 4 IT
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
oh well talk to him some more
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
GO 4 IT
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I have been dating a man for nearly a year now who has a daughtor. I love them both but I want to find people in similar situations and get some advice.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
bh37bh37@yahoo.com
RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
bh37bh37@yahoo.com
RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
My first date with her,plz some advices?
what should i wear?what to talk about with her?am thinkin to bring a red rose for her but i dont kno if it's gonna sound like am rushin it..advices plzMy first date with her,plz some advices?
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
I want to start dating again but have some issues. Such as where do you meet someone with out it being some where that you get in trouble such as a bar ect., i am also self conscious of my weight as i weight 205lbs 5ft 4in tall but proportional. I dont leave the house much. My income is limited, or low income, really budgeted trying to get disability. Many issues here. Age 32. What do you all think and suggest here with all of this...what positive hope and advise do you have for me...Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.
Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
Well...this guy I frequent the same gym, and we met a few months ago, and he always flirted with me, he even asked me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out, or go to a movie, but I never did.So a few months ago, and we set some dates, and out plans never went through, so we never got the chance to hook up and plus I stopped going to the gym so I never really ran into him.So I started going back to the gym, a few weeks ago, and when he seen me he was smiling, and he asked me out again, but his uncle/friend passed away...and I verified this so it actually DID happen,and he apologized and we had a long talk, and he told me was sorry, and that he doesnt want me to think he doesn't want to be bothered with me, but that he's trying to get out of financial difficulties and want's he gets this second job ';it's on and crackin';lol..so would you say he likes me or pullin my leg?Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!wholesale cosmetics
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!
Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
He had his daughter when he was young and she recently turned 18. His daughter is the #1 priority in his life, and I understand - he's a great dad %26amp; is responsible.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I just started dating this guy today and I'm still not sure if it's really what I want. I mean he makes me happy and he's very sweet, but I kind of think I still have feelings for my ex. I thought dating my current boyfriend would help me get my mind off of my ex, well I told my mom about it and she started asking me a lot of questions. Some questions I really didn't know the answer to I answered with an ';I don't know'; and she got all mad and asked when our (her and my) relationship started going downhill. Now she won't speak to me... I don't know what to do...should I break up with my boyfriend or just let things go? Please, any advice is appreciated!!I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
So ive been dating a boy we will call him jason for 9 months on saturday. When we first started dating it was really nice and wonderful. It still is i love him he is just really immature and really sexual and it is kind of obnoxious.
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
GO 4 IT
I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
oh well talk to him some more
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
GO 4 IT
I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
oh well talk to him some more
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I have been dating a man for nearly a year now who has a daughtor. I love them both but I want to find people in similar situations and get some advice.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
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RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
bh37bh37@yahoo.com
RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
My first date with her,plz some advices?
what should i wear?what to talk about with her?am thinkin to bring a red rose for her but i dont kno if it's gonna sound like am rushin it..advices plzMy first date with her,plz some advices?
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
I want to start dating again but have some issues. Such as where do you meet someone with out it being some where that you get in trouble such as a bar ect., i am also self conscious of my weight as i weight 205lbs 5ft 4in tall but proportional. I dont leave the house much. My income is limited, or low income, really budgeted trying to get disability. Many issues here. Age 32. What do you all think and suggest here with all of this...what positive hope and advise do you have for me...Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.old lipstick
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.
Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
Well...this guy I frequent the same gym, and we met a few months ago, and he always flirted with me, he even asked me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out, or go to a movie, but I never did.So a few months ago, and we set some dates, and out plans never went through, so we never got the chance to hook up and plus I stopped going to the gym so I never really ran into him.So I started going back to the gym, a few weeks ago, and when he seen me he was smiling, and he asked me out again, but his uncle/friend passed away...and I verified this so it actually DID happen,and he apologized and we had a long talk, and he told me was sorry, and that he doesnt want me to think he doesn't want to be bothered with me, but that he's trying to get out of financial difficulties and want's he gets this second job ';it's on and crackin';lol..so would you say he likes me or pullin my leg?Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!
Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
He had his daughter when he was young and she recently turned 18. His daughter is the #1 priority in his life, and I understand - he's a great dad %26amp; is responsible.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
Is there anyone out there who has faith in our relationship other than us? I know the odds are against me and her but we can make it happen. Im curious about everyones opinions or thoughts.I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
I have faith in the human spirit and that's something you too have in common and actually the only thing that matters. As far as setting the example, I think it's been done a thousand times over already in American society so there is actualy nothing to prove to anyone there. As long as you two are happy with each other, nothing else should matter.
From a religious standpoint, if you are muslim that might soften the blow to her family. If you are not then, again, the love you two have needs to be strong enough to withstand any storms. If you have that, you need nothing else.I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
...Is that weird or something? What the hell you want us to tell you? I guess it depends on what type of people you two are. Anything is possible.
ONLY DA FAITH OF YOU AND YOUR GIRL MATTERS...SOMETIMES I STRUGGLE HAVING FAITH IN MA OWN MARRIAGE! I would just say expect some big cultural differences and be patient!
its ok as long as u 2 like each other and dont abuse each other
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LEAVE HER!!! Shes from Afghanistan, that means shes a terrorist PLANNING TO PLANT A BOMB IN YOUR STOMACH AND BLOW YOU UP IN A CITY
Her parents wont approve
How about you get with a sista
I have faith in the human spirit and that's something you too have in common and actually the only thing that matters. As far as setting the example, I think it's been done a thousand times over already in American society so there is actualy nothing to prove to anyone there. As long as you two are happy with each other, nothing else should matter.
From a religious standpoint, if you are muslim that might soften the blow to her family. If you are not then, again, the love you two have needs to be strong enough to withstand any storms. If you have that, you need nothing else.I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
...Is that weird or something? What the hell you want us to tell you? I guess it depends on what type of people you two are. Anything is possible.
ONLY DA FAITH OF YOU AND YOUR GIRL MATTERS...SOMETIMES I STRUGGLE HAVING FAITH IN MA OWN MARRIAGE! I would just say expect some big cultural differences and be patient!
its ok as long as u 2 like each other and dont abuse each other
answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
LEAVE HER!!! Shes from Afghanistan, that means shes a terrorist PLANNING TO PLANT A BOMB IN YOUR STOMACH AND BLOW YOU UP IN A CITY
Her parents wont approve
How about you get with a sista
Marriage over now Insecure in dating & talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
I鈥檓 not trying to sound conceited or arrogant so with that set a side here is my question. I鈥檓 a very good looking man, better then normal i would say. 23, tall, blue eyes etc鈥ow can I over come insecurities with trying to date or just even talking to women? I can鈥檛 seem to meet anyone out there and if I do see someone I end up just being shy or even worse looking standoffish. Any recommendations? Girls鈥?any ideas for me?Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
Practice building friendships first. Hold your head high, look people in the eye, introduce yourself, take a communications class at your local college, join Toastmasters.Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
You are sooooo YOUNG. Enjoy your life. At 23, there is absolutely NOTHING to be insecure about. Have a great time, live to your fullest everyday. Be proud. Hold your chin up high! Just because your marriage did not work out, it's nothing to be insecure about at all. The problem is you got married WAY too young. Don't get married again for five years, and enjoy yourself.
Practice building friendships first. Hold your head high, look people in the eye, introduce yourself, take a communications class at your local college, join Toastmasters.Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
You are sooooo YOUNG. Enjoy your life. At 23, there is absolutely NOTHING to be insecure about. Have a great time, live to your fullest everyday. Be proud. Hold your chin up high! Just because your marriage did not work out, it's nothing to be insecure about at all. The problem is you got married WAY too young. Don't get married again for five years, and enjoy yourself.
I need some advice a friend and dating a black guy?
ok i live in this really small town full of rednecks. my really good friend and i both have black boyfriends that we r really serious with...she hasnt told her parents yet and now her jealous cousin is telling her parents about me and my bf and my friend told a lie and said it was all a lie. Her parents said she cant hang out with me if i date black guys....how should i handle this...we have a senior party tomorrow night and her parents are helping with it....im 19 and she is 18I need some advice a friend and dating a black guy?
it shouldnt be different from any other guy.just because he is black?? dam your making your self sound racist !!!!I need some advice a friend and dating a black guy?
no good
Small town, rednecks and rope??? do the math.
Aside from that, are you rebelling, cause I see drama in your life...
it shouldnt be different from any other guy.just because he is black?? dam your making your self sound racist !!!!I need some advice a friend and dating a black guy?
no good
Small town, rednecks and rope??? do the math.
Aside from that, are you rebelling, cause I see drama in your life...
Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
I am 25 femald and my boyfriend is 23. My boyfriend is concerned that I am too good (mature) for him. Do you think it's a great concern? I think it's even better for him to have a mature girlfriend, but he is taking it negative. Is it a sign of his insecurity? Your comments will be appreciated.Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
Maybe he doesn't appreciate a girl that is mature, over ';partying'; stage and ready for a real relationship!
His loss!Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
my first wife was 26 and i was 22 we were married for 18 wonderful years
You might suffer because most men don't mature fast as women; but he might be exceptional to the rule, and that's not a large age difference either, my daughter has this same issue, and they do argue a lot, but they have been together for 5 years, and my mom was older than my dad she is the one that said don't do it! Also if he can't appreciate you dump his butt quickly without winking your only going to cause your self heart ache and pain, you will be singing the blues like Billy Holiday, saying good morning heart ache.
He has to be off his rocker. More mature women are WONDERFUL.
Dump him and get someone that does not have hang ups.old lipstick
Maybe he doesn't appreciate a girl that is mature, over ';partying'; stage and ready for a real relationship!
His loss!Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
my first wife was 26 and i was 22 we were married for 18 wonderful years
You might suffer because most men don't mature fast as women; but he might be exceptional to the rule, and that's not a large age difference either, my daughter has this same issue, and they do argue a lot, but they have been together for 5 years, and my mom was older than my dad she is the one that said don't do it! Also if he can't appreciate you dump his butt quickly without winking your only going to cause your self heart ache and pain, you will be singing the blues like Billy Holiday, saying good morning heart ache.
He has to be off his rocker. More mature women are WONDERFUL.
Dump him and get someone that does not have hang ups.
Can you advice me on my dating situation (or in getting one)?
I will be honest: I'm a south Asian guy who is very much attracted to white girls (ya, I know it's very common). I also like south Asian girls very much; they are very beautiful (I'm obliged to say it), but since I'm used to them, my only source of attraction right now is a white girl.
Can you tell me how to approach white girls? Well, it would be like approaching any other type of girl, right? But how do I ask one out? How will I know if the girl is ready to date outside her ethnicity?
I'm in the south -- North Carolina. I have lived in the USA only for one and a half years and I have already gotten rid of my accent.
And I think it is easy to date a white girl than to date an Indian girl, given that Indians are too conservative and won't even date outside their lingual group. And I know for a fact that white girls don't show off, and they are very polite...and BANG BANG BANG! damn sexy!
So ya, any ideas are welcome!
Can you advice me on my dating situation (or in getting one)?
First, try to get confidence from anyone. once they put confidence, you can bravely ask them dating. Mutual trust, and confidence is important.
Can you tell me how to approach white girls? Well, it would be like approaching any other type of girl, right? But how do I ask one out? How will I know if the girl is ready to date outside her ethnicity?
I'm in the south -- North Carolina. I have lived in the USA only for one and a half years and I have already gotten rid of my accent.
And I think it is easy to date a white girl than to date an Indian girl, given that Indians are too conservative and won't even date outside their lingual group. And I know for a fact that white girls don't show off, and they are very polite...and BANG BANG BANG! damn sexy!
So ya, any ideas are welcome!
Can you advice me on my dating situation (or in getting one)?
First, try to get confidence from anyone. once they put confidence, you can bravely ask them dating. Mutual trust, and confidence is important.
I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
I have told her to go down on him more often, but she says that only works for when her mouth is on him. She says when he goes to have sex with her he goes soft. They've been having sex about a month and a half now.
He never was soft with me. I don't know what to tell her. I always wondered if he was having sex with her just to get back with me. If that's true, then that might make sense why he's not hard. But, I don't want to hurt her feelings cuz she really likes him.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
I think he is after you again. If he was hard with you, but he's not hard with your gf even after she goes down on him, then he's just not that into her. That puts you in a tough position. Hopefully, your gf gives up and moves on to a guy who can get it up for her.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
Wow, I'm surprised that you stayed friends with your bff after she started dating your x bf. If you were the one to break up with him then he probably is dating her to get back at you. It's very probable that he is not in to her like that.
Actually a lot of guys have that problem.
Tell her to have him try viagra.
Tell her to try some anal sex with him. That should do the trick.
He never was soft with me. I don't know what to tell her. I always wondered if he was having sex with her just to get back with me. If that's true, then that might make sense why he's not hard. But, I don't want to hurt her feelings cuz she really likes him.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
I think he is after you again. If he was hard with you, but he's not hard with your gf even after she goes down on him, then he's just not that into her. That puts you in a tough position. Hopefully, your gf gives up and moves on to a guy who can get it up for her.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
Wow, I'm surprised that you stayed friends with your bff after she started dating your x bf. If you were the one to break up with him then he probably is dating her to get back at you. It's very probable that he is not in to her like that.
Actually a lot of guys have that problem.
Tell her to have him try viagra.
Tell her to try some anal sex with him. That should do the trick.
I need advice on same sex dating?
I'm in 8th grade, I've known I was gay for a while, And I have never dated a guy before, and I want to know what should I do, should I tell him how I feel and If I do, how should I proceed to tell him. Only a few friends of mine know I'm gay. So I'm not sure what to doI need advice on same sex dating?
man, all i can say is its your call, how comfortable are you with telling someone and can you handel what comes after being out.....some people are not accepting. this is a pretty big judgement call for you. you could always observe him and see if you can determine that way, if staying closeted is what your aiming for.I need advice on same sex dating?
I don't want to pick holes in your theory, but just be aware that you might be observing these things selectively because you want him to be gay. It sounds like you are infatuated with him, and you just need to know that you won't have a crystal-clear, unbiased view of him.
Not much you have said absolutely screams out that he might be attracted to guys too. He could be straight, and you don't want this to blow up in your face if you act on your thoughts. Tread really carefully. Good luck.
Is this guy that you're thinking about telling out as Gay? I'm a little confused about the question. If there's a gay guy in your class that you want to date/get to know then I would try hanging out and see if you guys get along as friends and go from there. Do you have a reason to think he's into you? If these are the case then I say go for it. I really regret not dating when I was younger because it's weird to be old and say I've never had a _____friend. %26gt;.%26lt;
man, all i can say is its your call, how comfortable are you with telling someone and can you handel what comes after being out.....some people are not accepting. this is a pretty big judgement call for you. you could always observe him and see if you can determine that way, if staying closeted is what your aiming for.I need advice on same sex dating?
I don't want to pick holes in your theory, but just be aware that you might be observing these things selectively because you want him to be gay. It sounds like you are infatuated with him, and you just need to know that you won't have a crystal-clear, unbiased view of him.
Not much you have said absolutely screams out that he might be attracted to guys too. He could be straight, and you don't want this to blow up in your face if you act on your thoughts. Tread really carefully. Good luck.
Is this guy that you're thinking about telling out as Gay? I'm a little confused about the question. If there's a gay guy in your class that you want to date/get to know then I would try hanging out and see if you guys get along as friends and go from there. Do you have a reason to think he's into you? If these are the case then I say go for it. I really regret not dating when I was younger because it's weird to be old and say I've never had a _____friend. %26gt;.%26lt;
HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
I have opened up a dialog with them as I feel i am willing to wait until around christmas time to possibly live together which is waiting for about 15 and a half months, they tell me they can make no promises and they dont know when it could happen, is it wrong that I want to live with my lover? Is it asking too much too soon? Am I in the wrong for wanting to live with someone i see being with for years to come? I feel daddy and the sister come first and that I am not a priority even though they say i am, they asked the sisters opinion already and the sister said that it was too soon and yet this person asked me to be in a committed relationship after less than a week. I have made them my priority and put them in thier proper respectful place and all i feel is like a part time girlfriend. Please community set me straight if i am in the wrong here, I really need everyones advice. Thank you so much, look forward to your answers.HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
Your not wrong if that's how you feel, but she obviously is not ready. You say you have put her first and respected her, but you seem desperate and pushy. This is a relationship, with it comes understanding and compromise. So let it go. Her family have been with her longer, they may come first and that should not be a problem. Let it play out.HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
umm....damn champ...the daddy pays the bills and you just ****** the *****??? seems like a win win situation for you....lol.....btw of course they are family....your just another bf....
Your not wrong if that's how you feel, but she obviously is not ready. You say you have put her first and respected her, but you seem desperate and pushy. This is a relationship, with it comes understanding and compromise. So let it go. Her family have been with her longer, they may come first and that should not be a problem. Let it play out.HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
umm....damn champ...the daddy pays the bills and you just ****** the *****??? seems like a win win situation for you....lol.....btw of course they are family....your just another bf....
I need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
Ive been crying for the last week over everything. like i feel like nobody likes me and i dont feel pretty. I never get compliments. But there is this girl who is popular and she is a brat to me but im her ';friend';. Like everytime i have fun shes like dont ever do that again or ur so weird. She also tells me that i have wrinkles but i dont. I try to be happy but i cant went she is around. She has diabeties and shes kinda chubby. Im always quiet i dont talk much and im skinny. My mom tells me that shes only mean to me because she is jealous because im pretty and skinny. But there is alot of girls at my school that are pretty and skinny like me. She is really pretty but her personality is ugly. She is a brunette but she is kinda stupid and she dances like a stripper. She wears short short shorts and it has her butt hanging out. She thinks she is better than everyone one else!!!! She gets alot of dates and ive only had a few in my life that i really fell for them. But i have never kissed a guy. She has kissed probably ever guy in are grade. So will u please tell me whats going on b4 i lose it. Im desperate about everything my mom says that she might waant me to take medicine to make me happier. Please be as seriouse as u can pleaseI need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
Aw darlin' it definitely sounds like she's jealous of you. She is probably just as self-conscious as you seem to be and, because you are shy, she feels like she can be rude and make fun of you because she doesn't think you can defend yourself. I would try and avoid her. She obviously is not a good friend and isn't helping you feel better about yourself.
One reason you may not be getting compliments is because of your shyness. Try and open up a little, talk to the boys in your classes, maybe even flirt a little. The more people know you, the more they will notice you, and the more likely they will have positive things to say about you =)
Also, it seems like the reasons guys like her is because she's kind of a ****. Don't stoop to her gross level. While that sort of behavior might turn a guy on, ultimately, most decent guys are not looking for girls like that.
So show some guys what you're like on the inside, drop that ';friend'; off your social network, and just be yourself. The right guy WILL come around. Some times it just takes time. Stay positive and know that you're loved.I need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
doesn't sound like you need help. this entire thing was just bashing on a girl you call your friend. your the backstabber here.
Aw darlin' it definitely sounds like she's jealous of you. She is probably just as self-conscious as you seem to be and, because you are shy, she feels like she can be rude and make fun of you because she doesn't think you can defend yourself. I would try and avoid her. She obviously is not a good friend and isn't helping you feel better about yourself.
One reason you may not be getting compliments is because of your shyness. Try and open up a little, talk to the boys in your classes, maybe even flirt a little. The more people know you, the more they will notice you, and the more likely they will have positive things to say about you =)
Also, it seems like the reasons guys like her is because she's kind of a ****. Don't stoop to her gross level. While that sort of behavior might turn a guy on, ultimately, most decent guys are not looking for girls like that.
So show some guys what you're like on the inside, drop that ';friend'; off your social network, and just be yourself. The right guy WILL come around. Some times it just takes time. Stay positive and know that you're loved.I need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
doesn't sound like you need help. this entire thing was just bashing on a girl you call your friend. your the backstabber here.
Please help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
i would be extremely appreciative if anyone could offer me some advice!
I was given an EDD at an 9week and 6 day scan of 25th jan. Counting the 25th jan as my 40th week of pregnancy, means that i got my first positive pregnancy test on 4th may at exactly 2 weeks of pregnancy. this doesn't make sense to me! My last menstrual period prior to this was 3rd april which would have given me an edd of 7th Jan and would mean that the first positive preg test would have been at 5w 3d pregnant.
many many thanksPlease help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
With Ultrasounds, anything before 12 weeks is based on measurements of the baby. Anything after 12 weeks they say can be out by up to 2 weeks.
So, your period was 3rd April. You wouldn't have ovulated until about the 10-15 April on a standard cycle. You could have ovulated later.
(Though the 4th May does sound a bit extreme)
Your positive pregnancy test could have been at 2 weeks, as your body starts producing hCG hormone when your baby implants into the uterus. This could have been early for you.
Your baby could also have been slow at developing. It's not unusual or bad, but it does mean you have a chance of having a small baby.
My first ultrasound showed i was 6 weeks 4 days. They told me to come back for my 12 week ultrasound in 4 weeks. I booked the appointment that day for 4 weeks later, but when i went in the baby was only measuring 10 weeks, and i had to go back 2 weeks later.
I guess it depends on the person doing the ultrasound as well, and how far out they stick the measurements. When you watch, they don't have a lot of room for mistakes.Please help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
You ovulate around 2 weeks before your period or after (either way between day 10-14 of your cycle). So this makes sense. Some family planning centres/drs take it back to the date of your last period which is the date your thinking of, however if they've done a scan and such then i'm sure they know what they're on about. However wait til the next scan and when baby is bigger they can get better measurements etc, although its not likely to change. But either way your gonna have a baby from the 7th to 25th Jan which is fantatsic. Many congrats and good luck with the pregnancy.
hi im 26 weeks pregnant going from early scan date but going from lmp i should be 28 weeks. i discussed this with my midwife who said i coulve ovulated late and my cycle is usually 32 days not your usual 28 days. i just go with dates from scan now as these are the dates the hopsital use and will go by if your overdue etc. as long as baby is healthy i wouldnt worry bout it too much although it did really annoy me at first as we were trying so i knew my dates, as its only an estimate anyway x
hiya maybe your baby is growing well for its age or you got your dates mixed up, i thought i was due on 28th august according to my last period but when i went for my scan they changed it to beginning sept, i wouldn't worry to much, as long as you and baby are healthy you should be fine xx
Not too sure about your dates mix up but as long as you give birth to a healthy baby, nothing else matters. Dates are just numbers. The reality is that the baby will come when it's ready, not when some nurse or midwife says. Good luck and hope you have a lovely baby
It's based on your menstrual cycle, they count it as 2 weeks BEFORE your first missed period as that is when you are ovulating and will have actually fallen pregnant. You just don't know about it till your period doesn't come on.
You will be given another ultrasound later on and they will measure the baby then too. If she is bigger they will change your due date if not then they won't. Your right though having a positive at 2 weeks is pretty much impossible.
go to babycenter.com and due the dd-prediction based on you Last menstrual Period and take that as your due date.old lipstick
I was given an EDD at an 9week and 6 day scan of 25th jan. Counting the 25th jan as my 40th week of pregnancy, means that i got my first positive pregnancy test on 4th may at exactly 2 weeks of pregnancy. this doesn't make sense to me! My last menstrual period prior to this was 3rd april which would have given me an edd of 7th Jan and would mean that the first positive preg test would have been at 5w 3d pregnant.
many many thanksPlease help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
With Ultrasounds, anything before 12 weeks is based on measurements of the baby. Anything after 12 weeks they say can be out by up to 2 weeks.
So, your period was 3rd April. You wouldn't have ovulated until about the 10-15 April on a standard cycle. You could have ovulated later.
(Though the 4th May does sound a bit extreme)
Your positive pregnancy test could have been at 2 weeks, as your body starts producing hCG hormone when your baby implants into the uterus. This could have been early for you.
Your baby could also have been slow at developing. It's not unusual or bad, but it does mean you have a chance of having a small baby.
My first ultrasound showed i was 6 weeks 4 days. They told me to come back for my 12 week ultrasound in 4 weeks. I booked the appointment that day for 4 weeks later, but when i went in the baby was only measuring 10 weeks, and i had to go back 2 weeks later.
I guess it depends on the person doing the ultrasound as well, and how far out they stick the measurements. When you watch, they don't have a lot of room for mistakes.Please help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
You ovulate around 2 weeks before your period or after (either way between day 10-14 of your cycle). So this makes sense. Some family planning centres/drs take it back to the date of your last period which is the date your thinking of, however if they've done a scan and such then i'm sure they know what they're on about. However wait til the next scan and when baby is bigger they can get better measurements etc, although its not likely to change. But either way your gonna have a baby from the 7th to 25th Jan which is fantatsic. Many congrats and good luck with the pregnancy.
hi im 26 weeks pregnant going from early scan date but going from lmp i should be 28 weeks. i discussed this with my midwife who said i coulve ovulated late and my cycle is usually 32 days not your usual 28 days. i just go with dates from scan now as these are the dates the hopsital use and will go by if your overdue etc. as long as baby is healthy i wouldnt worry bout it too much although it did really annoy me at first as we were trying so i knew my dates, as its only an estimate anyway x
hiya maybe your baby is growing well for its age or you got your dates mixed up, i thought i was due on 28th august according to my last period but when i went for my scan they changed it to beginning sept, i wouldn't worry to much, as long as you and baby are healthy you should be fine xx
Not too sure about your dates mix up but as long as you give birth to a healthy baby, nothing else matters. Dates are just numbers. The reality is that the baby will come when it's ready, not when some nurse or midwife says. Good luck and hope you have a lovely baby
It's based on your menstrual cycle, they count it as 2 weeks BEFORE your first missed period as that is when you are ovulating and will have actually fallen pregnant. You just don't know about it till your period doesn't come on.
You will be given another ultrasound later on and they will measure the baby then too. If she is bigger they will change your due date if not then they won't. Your right though having a positive at 2 weeks is pretty much impossible.
go to babycenter.com and due the dd-prediction based on you Last menstrual Period and take that as your due date.
I need advice from Christians!!! on Dating?
Ok well there is this girl I like. And I am Christian were as she isn't. And so I don't swear and all that stuff and like everything well yeah I am Christian.
But the problem with this girl is she is bisexual.
Would it be wrong for me to go out with her even though she is bisexual? And she does swear sometimes but not that much and there is like no way she could stop me from being a Christian if she trys to do that then why be with her?
So is it wrong for me to go out with her?I need advice from Christians!!! on Dating?
I think you should be friends with her, and wait to find someone who has the same values as you to date. If you have questions about it pray, and if you dont like the answer... know it is in your best interests. But if you see danger, best to close the door and quick.
And, since your a christian.. you should be more interested in the beauty of women who fear god, and want to abide in his will.I need advice from Christians!!! on Dating?
How could she stop you from being a Christian? Here's some advice, don't think that just because someone doesn't practice your religion that it means they are a bad person who is a heathen.
No it would not be wrong for you to date her, but by judging your character from your post, I think it would be best that you don't.
uh..well judging by your character and what you said about her...you should be with someone that is more compatible with you and your standards. I'm not saying that she is a bad person..just saying that you should date someone on the same level as yours.
Don't be like Solomon and some other men from the bible and turn away from god because of women. They decieve men away form god all the time.
But the problem with this girl is she is bisexual.
Would it be wrong for me to go out with her even though she is bisexual? And she does swear sometimes but not that much and there is like no way she could stop me from being a Christian if she trys to do that then why be with her?
So is it wrong for me to go out with her?I need advice from Christians!!! on Dating?
I think you should be friends with her, and wait to find someone who has the same values as you to date. If you have questions about it pray, and if you dont like the answer... know it is in your best interests. But if you see danger, best to close the door and quick.
And, since your a christian.. you should be more interested in the beauty of women who fear god, and want to abide in his will.I need advice from Christians!!! on Dating?
How could she stop you from being a Christian? Here's some advice, don't think that just because someone doesn't practice your religion that it means they are a bad person who is a heathen.
No it would not be wrong for you to date her, but by judging your character from your post, I think it would be best that you don't.
uh..well judging by your character and what you said about her...you should be with someone that is more compatible with you and your standards. I'm not saying that she is a bad person..just saying that you should date someone on the same level as yours.
Don't be like Solomon and some other men from the bible and turn away from god because of women. They decieve men away form god all the time.
Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
I am 25 femald and my boyfriend is 23. My boyfriend is concerned that I am too good (mature) for him. Do you think it's a great concern? I think it's even better for him to have a mature girlfriend, but he is taking it negative. Is it a sign of his insecurity? Your comments will be appreciated.Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
Age is not a problem if he really cares about you. let alone 2 years.Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
should not matter if he is making it such an issue find someone else
i am 4 years older than my husband, its not that big of deal, i swear. we were about the same age as you are when we got together. i was 25 he was 21.
if that is your biggest problem in your relatinship you are golden, i promise
so what? age doesnt matter...as long as you like or love each other but with your case i think your bf is just making that as an excuse. i dont get it? why would he take it negatively if he chose you as his gf?! he should have thought about it before he gets into a relationship with you...
love has no age
Based on what you just said, it appears that your boyfriend is the one who concerned about the age difference. I think in this situation he is lacking confident on this relationship. But I have to agree that 23 years old guy is very immature compare to a 25 years old girl.
If you really like each other I am sure you can overcome the problem. If not, it means that he is not your Mr. Right. So I hope you can take it easy for whatever happens. Good luck.
If a guy says your too good for him it's probably true. He's saying that he's not ready for a monogamous relationship or commitment. If your just up for fun shouldn't be a problem. Don't fall for him. Don't get too close. Don't crowd him. If he's negative at this point about your relationship, I wouldn't hold some big break up scene. Just back off and occupy your time elsewhere. Oh to be 25 again. Enjoy your energy and freedom. Save your money.
Age is not a problem if he really cares about you. let alone 2 years.Need advice regarding age difference in dating. I'm 25 and he is 23.?
should not matter if he is making it such an issue find someone else
i am 4 years older than my husband, its not that big of deal, i swear. we were about the same age as you are when we got together. i was 25 he was 21.
if that is your biggest problem in your relatinship you are golden, i promise
so what? age doesnt matter...as long as you like or love each other but with your case i think your bf is just making that as an excuse. i dont get it? why would he take it negatively if he chose you as his gf?! he should have thought about it before he gets into a relationship with you...
love has no age
Based on what you just said, it appears that your boyfriend is the one who concerned about the age difference. I think in this situation he is lacking confident on this relationship. But I have to agree that 23 years old guy is very immature compare to a 25 years old girl.
If you really like each other I am sure you can overcome the problem. If not, it means that he is not your Mr. Right. So I hope you can take it easy for whatever happens. Good luck.
If a guy says your too good for him it's probably true. He's saying that he's not ready for a monogamous relationship or commitment. If your just up for fun shouldn't be a problem. Don't fall for him. Don't get too close. Don't crowd him. If he's negative at this point about your relationship, I wouldn't hold some big break up scene. Just back off and occupy your time elsewhere. Oh to be 25 again. Enjoy your energy and freedom. Save your money.
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Is there any advice out there about dating a Celiac?
I am in love with a wonderful man who is a Celiac. I am getting comfortable with the dietary adjustments that need to be made, but I wanted to see if anyone out there can tell me ways to make this relationship successful that I might not have thought of before. I don't mind eating with the same restrictions (that way I don't poison him with my good night smooch), and he is very generous in not ';requiring'; me to eat the same diet. His whole immediate family also are Celiacs, and I am meeting them for the first time soon.Is there any advice out there about dating a Celiac?
Hi. :) Yes it is perfectly acceptable to call him a Celiac!! We do that alot int he Celiac community. In fact, we affectionately refer to ourselves as Silly's (SillyYaks, get it?)
I think its awesome you are accepting of his restrictions, bc it is hard to eat GF!
Really there is no specific advice, just let him teach you the GF diet and feel free to eat your gluten filled foods when not around him. I am the only Silly in my house, my husband and son are not Celiac, so I make dinner GF (bc I'm the one cooking it!) although I do occasionaly make exceptions for their fave stuff as long as I have a GF alternative. BUt I have no problem with my husband having his oreos, etc. And he's polite enough to not eat them directly in front of me!
Remember that there are GF menus at some common restaraunts ya'll can enjoy together! Outback, PF Changs both have in house GF menus and Chilis has one online u can print, bring in and order off of.
(FYI: very nice of you to think about a GF smooch, but double check your lipsticks and chapsticks--gluten is a common ingredient!)
Enjoy meeting his family and trust me, they will LOVE that you are accepting of the diet and diagnosis (not everyone is! Lots of ppl thinkwe ar emaking it up!)
These sites may help you in your journey to understand celiac and all that is entailed!
www.csaceliacs.org
www.celiac.com
www.celiac.org
Oh and GF beer IS available. Anheiser Busch (sp?) has one called Redbridge! And many alcohols are GF unless made from malt.Is there any advice out there about dating a Celiac?
I am a celiac. You have to avoid gluten like the plague if you are celiac. Gluten is wheat,oats rye and barley. There will be no beer and malt products in the diet. I got myself into trouble many times until I understood the disease and diet but it didn't kill me so don't be too hard on yourself.
There is a genetic link to this disease as well.
As long as they stick to the diet they should be fine. You know real fast when you have messed up.
Also many medications can contain gluten filled fillers so have to be careful with that as well/
Type in Celiac sprue in your browser and you can learn more about this disease.
First of all, you might want to stop referring to him by his condition... I'm sure he's a pretty normal guy! I have never dated a person with Celiac, but I happen to sit next to someone at work who has this disease. Talk to him about it and how it makes him feel. Try not to bring up foods that he can't eat (';I could really go for a bagel w/cream cheese right now'; etc) as it might secretly torture him! Find gluten-free bread and dessert recipes. Make them together and eat them together (some aren't bad!). Also, and this is a big one for my friend - don't make a huge scene saying ';Oh, he can't eat that - he has Celiac disease';. They get embarrased. Hope that helps!
Hi. :) Yes it is perfectly acceptable to call him a Celiac!! We do that alot int he Celiac community. In fact, we affectionately refer to ourselves as Silly's (SillyYaks, get it?)
I think its awesome you are accepting of his restrictions, bc it is hard to eat GF!
Really there is no specific advice, just let him teach you the GF diet and feel free to eat your gluten filled foods when not around him. I am the only Silly in my house, my husband and son are not Celiac, so I make dinner GF (bc I'm the one cooking it!) although I do occasionaly make exceptions for their fave stuff as long as I have a GF alternative. BUt I have no problem with my husband having his oreos, etc. And he's polite enough to not eat them directly in front of me!
Remember that there are GF menus at some common restaraunts ya'll can enjoy together! Outback, PF Changs both have in house GF menus and Chilis has one online u can print, bring in and order off of.
(FYI: very nice of you to think about a GF smooch, but double check your lipsticks and chapsticks--gluten is a common ingredient!)
Enjoy meeting his family and trust me, they will LOVE that you are accepting of the diet and diagnosis (not everyone is! Lots of ppl thinkwe ar emaking it up!)
These sites may help you in your journey to understand celiac and all that is entailed!
www.csaceliacs.org
www.celiac.com
www.celiac.org
Oh and GF beer IS available. Anheiser Busch (sp?) has one called Redbridge! And many alcohols are GF unless made from malt.Is there any advice out there about dating a Celiac?
I am a celiac. You have to avoid gluten like the plague if you are celiac. Gluten is wheat,oats rye and barley. There will be no beer and malt products in the diet. I got myself into trouble many times until I understood the disease and diet but it didn't kill me so don't be too hard on yourself.
There is a genetic link to this disease as well.
As long as they stick to the diet they should be fine. You know real fast when you have messed up.
Also many medications can contain gluten filled fillers so have to be careful with that as well/
Type in Celiac sprue in your browser and you can learn more about this disease.
First of all, you might want to stop referring to him by his condition... I'm sure he's a pretty normal guy! I have never dated a person with Celiac, but I happen to sit next to someone at work who has this disease. Talk to him about it and how it makes him feel. Try not to bring up foods that he can't eat (';I could really go for a bagel w/cream cheese right now'; etc) as it might secretly torture him! Find gluten-free bread and dessert recipes. Make them together and eat them together (some aren't bad!). Also, and this is a big one for my friend - don't make a huge scene saying ';Oh, he can't eat that - he has Celiac disease';. They get embarrased. Hope that helps!
Any GOOD advice for someone who's dating someone who's in a (3-year) process of a divorce?
They were separated 8 months before we started dating, and its been over 2 years now and they are still not divorced, they both have lawyers and no property to dispute. He has gotten to where the thought of her makes him physically sick, and he filed a no-contact order over 6 months ago. Why is it taking so freckin long?Any GOOD advice for someone who's dating someone who's in a (3-year) process of a divorce?
I went thru a 2 yr. divorce just because he would'nt sign the papers. After all that time. My lawyer considered it a contested divorce. And I should've went ahead and payed the extra money for the contested divorce. I was in a simular experience. And the mear thought of him just made me sick to know that I was still married to him.Any GOOD advice for someone who's dating someone who's in a (3-year) process of a divorce?
You need plan B gal ! Start lookin somewhere , cause I bet he is !! Better warm up to run!!
SOmething is wrong. No divorce takes 3 years, There are things you dont know,
It shouldn't If they, no matter lawyers or not the time is usually 3 months, i would check to see if Mr, Right is so right.
Advice....well you wont take it but RUN something is def not right here
I somewhat went thru the same thing, dated before the divorce was final....and he didn't really want to talk about the process at all. But a little over a year later it's done and over with, THANK GOD~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
divorce is always long!!!! but 2 years is tooooo long!!!!!!!!!!!! maybe they are not sure they really want to divorce?
i'm almost in the same boat you are...i've been dating someone for 9 months who separated from his wife 11 months ago and they're still not divorced and they have 2 kids one is almost 3 and one who is 18 months i already can hardly handle it and not because i cant ...just because i'm not sure if i want to..if his divorce is going to take as long as your boyfriends i dont think i'll stick around that long..i mean i know i really care about him...but it's just hard ...i'm a college student and i have so many things ahead of me..i dont know...i guess i can't really help you
Sounds like he is feeding you a line and has no plans on divorcing her. Have you seen any of this paperwork? If they really wanted to be divorced, they would be by now.
1. Your ';boyfriend'; is somebody else's husband. Emotionally and legally.
2. He claims that he wants a divorce, but, even though they have no joint property and (I assume) no children, he does not simply divorce her.
3. He was ';separated'; when you met. If that means a legal separation, not just physical separation, then I really feel sorry for you, because a legal separation means that they did not want to part.
4. He claims to have filed a no-contact order, but you don't mention any incidents of her having harassed him in any way. So there is 100% chance that he is contacting her, either emotionally or sexually or both.
5. He wants to be with his wife, or the divorce would've been final within 6 months.
6. Get a life, girlfriend. That man does NOT want you. If you were gone, he would have another. You are easily replacable in his eyes, as opposed to his wife, who is irreplacable, since he will not let go of her, even if ';the thought of her makes him physically sick.';
one or the other is messing around.divorces should only take 6 weeks tops...thats if they really mean it
You know what the Judge said, '; NEXT CASE';
I went thru a 2 yr. divorce just because he would'nt sign the papers. After all that time. My lawyer considered it a contested divorce. And I should've went ahead and payed the extra money for the contested divorce. I was in a simular experience. And the mear thought of him just made me sick to know that I was still married to him.Any GOOD advice for someone who's dating someone who's in a (3-year) process of a divorce?
You need plan B gal ! Start lookin somewhere , cause I bet he is !! Better warm up to run!!
SOmething is wrong. No divorce takes 3 years, There are things you dont know,
It shouldn't If they, no matter lawyers or not the time is usually 3 months, i would check to see if Mr, Right is so right.
Advice....well you wont take it but RUN something is def not right here
I somewhat went thru the same thing, dated before the divorce was final....and he didn't really want to talk about the process at all. But a little over a year later it's done and over with, THANK GOD~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
divorce is always long!!!! but 2 years is tooooo long!!!!!!!!!!!! maybe they are not sure they really want to divorce?
i'm almost in the same boat you are...i've been dating someone for 9 months who separated from his wife 11 months ago and they're still not divorced and they have 2 kids one is almost 3 and one who is 18 months i already can hardly handle it and not because i cant ...just because i'm not sure if i want to..if his divorce is going to take as long as your boyfriends i dont think i'll stick around that long..i mean i know i really care about him...but it's just hard ...i'm a college student and i have so many things ahead of me..i dont know...i guess i can't really help you
Sounds like he is feeding you a line and has no plans on divorcing her. Have you seen any of this paperwork? If they really wanted to be divorced, they would be by now.
1. Your ';boyfriend'; is somebody else's husband. Emotionally and legally.
2. He claims that he wants a divorce, but, even though they have no joint property and (I assume) no children, he does not simply divorce her.
3. He was ';separated'; when you met. If that means a legal separation, not just physical separation, then I really feel sorry for you, because a legal separation means that they did not want to part.
4. He claims to have filed a no-contact order, but you don't mention any incidents of her having harassed him in any way. So there is 100% chance that he is contacting her, either emotionally or sexually or both.
5. He wants to be with his wife, or the divorce would've been final within 6 months.
6. Get a life, girlfriend. That man does NOT want you. If you were gone, he would have another. You are easily replacable in his eyes, as opposed to his wife, who is irreplacable, since he will not let go of her, even if ';the thought of her makes him physically sick.';
one or the other is messing around.divorces should only take 6 weeks tops...thats if they really mean it
You know what the Judge said, '; NEXT CASE';
Any American women dating a Nigerian guy....need some advice?
How do you feel about dating someone of a different culture? Did you ever get criticized because of the stereotype associated with Nigerian men?Any American women dating a Nigerian guy....need some advice?
I think it's great dating a person of a different culture. It's a great learning experience. Sure some customs maybe strange and unsual to some but so what?? Dosen't mean you have to follow them and who gives a crap what anyone else thinks *** long as you like the person. Please DO YOU!Any American women dating a Nigerian guy....need some advice?
alot of Nigerians are fraudulent, and so you should be careful when dating one. good luckold lipstick
I think it's great dating a person of a different culture. It's a great learning experience. Sure some customs maybe strange and unsual to some but so what?? Dosen't mean you have to follow them and who gives a crap what anyone else thinks *** long as you like the person. Please DO YOU!Any American women dating a Nigerian guy....need some advice?
alot of Nigerians are fraudulent, and so you should be careful when dating one. good luck
Advice for someone new too the dating game?
hi, i am new to the dating game, what is the best ting to sa to a lay in a club?????Advice for someone new too the dating game?
Say hello and do it when you feel your mood is up - lines don't work - authenticity and confidence does.
I've met a lot of women over the years but with very little success in clubs... Try other places and ways to meet people not just women and you might have a better shot --
My experience is that people make it so loaded that they build up a mystique instead of just being themselves - we all want to meet people (most of us anyway) and on some level we're all the same - so no reason not to talk to people as such -
think of it as a new conversation rather than a ';pick-up'; or conquest - that's where you can get into trouble -- sometimes subtlety goes a long way, be open to more than just your agenda - you'll enjoy the process more anyway and put less pressure on yourself...Advice for someone new too the dating game?
';Hey! I've got something that you might want. In my pants.';
Gets me every time!
Can i buy you your next drink
We can go over what i will cook you for breakfast tomorrow?
just have alot of money to buy drinks and make sure you know how to dance. and always hang around at the bar and when a lady comes and stand or sits next to you just say hi do you want me to buy you a drink.that will always be the first line in the club.then everything will come later.she might even make you meet her friends.and don't forget to ask her name and to dance.
Say hello and do it when you feel your mood is up - lines don't work - authenticity and confidence does.
I've met a lot of women over the years but with very little success in clubs... Try other places and ways to meet people not just women and you might have a better shot --
My experience is that people make it so loaded that they build up a mystique instead of just being themselves - we all want to meet people (most of us anyway) and on some level we're all the same - so no reason not to talk to people as such -
think of it as a new conversation rather than a ';pick-up'; or conquest - that's where you can get into trouble -- sometimes subtlety goes a long way, be open to more than just your agenda - you'll enjoy the process more anyway and put less pressure on yourself...Advice for someone new too the dating game?
';Hey! I've got something that you might want. In my pants.';
Gets me every time!
Can i buy you your next drink
We can go over what i will cook you for breakfast tomorrow?
just have alot of money to buy drinks and make sure you know how to dance. and always hang around at the bar and when a lady comes and stand or sits next to you just say hi do you want me to buy you a drink.that will always be the first line in the club.then everything will come later.she might even make you meet her friends.and don't forget to ask her name and to dance.
Can you advice me on my dating situation (or in getting one)?
I will be honest: I'm a south Asian guy who is very much attracted to white girls (ya, I know it's very common). I also like south Asian girls very much; they are very beautiful (I'm obliged to say it), but since I'm used to them, my only source of attraction right now is a white girl.
Can you tell me how to approach white girls? Well, it would be like approaching any other type of girl, right? But how do I ask one out? How will I know if the girl is ready to date outside her ethnicity?
I'm in the south -- North Carolina. I have lived in the USA only for one and a half years and I have already gotten rid of my accent.
And I think it is easy to date a white girl than to date an Indian girl, given that Indians are too conservative and won't even date outside their lingual group. And I know for a fact that white girls don't show off, and they are very polite...and BANG BANG BANG! damn sexy!
So ya, any ideas are welcome!
Can you advice me on my dating situation (or in getting one)?
First, try to get confidence from anyone. once they put confidence, you can bravely ask them dating. Mutual trust, and confidence is important.
Can you tell me how to approach white girls? Well, it would be like approaching any other type of girl, right? But how do I ask one out? How will I know if the girl is ready to date outside her ethnicity?
I'm in the south -- North Carolina. I have lived in the USA only for one and a half years and I have already gotten rid of my accent.
And I think it is easy to date a white girl than to date an Indian girl, given that Indians are too conservative and won't even date outside their lingual group. And I know for a fact that white girls don't show off, and they are very polite...and BANG BANG BANG! damn sexy!
So ya, any ideas are welcome!
Can you advice me on my dating situation (or in getting one)?
First, try to get confidence from anyone. once they put confidence, you can bravely ask them dating. Mutual trust, and confidence is important.
I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
I have told her to go down on him more often, but she says that only works for when her mouth is on him. She says when he goes to have sex with her he goes soft. They've been having sex about a month and a half now.
He never was soft with me. I don't know what to tell her. I always wondered if he was having sex with her just to get back with me. If that's true, then that might make sense why he's not hard. But, I don't want to hurt her feelings cuz she really likes him.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
I think he is after you again. If he was hard with you, but he's not hard with your gf even after she goes down on him, then he's just not that into her. That puts you in a tough position. Hopefully, your gf gives up and moves on to a guy who can get it up for her.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
Wow, I'm surprised that you stayed friends with your bff after she started dating your x bf. If you were the one to break up with him then he probably is dating her to get back at you. It's very probable that he is not in to her like that.
Actually a lot of guys have that problem.
Tell her to have him try viagra.
Tell her to try some anal sex with him. That should do the trick.
He never was soft with me. I don't know what to tell her. I always wondered if he was having sex with her just to get back with me. If that's true, then that might make sense why he's not hard. But, I don't want to hurt her feelings cuz she really likes him.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
I think he is after you again. If he was hard with you, but he's not hard with your gf even after she goes down on him, then he's just not that into her. That puts you in a tough position. Hopefully, your gf gives up and moves on to a guy who can get it up for her.I need advice. My bff is dating my X-bf. She says he doesn't stay hard.?
Wow, I'm surprised that you stayed friends with your bff after she started dating your x bf. If you were the one to break up with him then he probably is dating her to get back at you. It's very probable that he is not in to her like that.
Actually a lot of guys have that problem.
Tell her to have him try viagra.
Tell her to try some anal sex with him. That should do the trick.
I need advice on same sex dating?
I'm in 8th grade, I've known I was gay for a while, And I have never dated a guy before, and I want to know what should I do, should I tell him how I feel and If I do, how should I proceed to tell him. Only a few friends of mine know I'm gay. So I'm not sure what to doI need advice on same sex dating?
Is this guy that you're thinking about telling out as Gay? I'm a little confused about the question. If there's a gay guy in your class that you want to date/get to know then I would try hanging out and see if you guys get along as friends and go from there. Do you have a reason to think he's into you? If these are the case then I say go for it. I really regret not dating when I was younger because it's weird to be old and say I've never had a _____friend. %26gt;.%26lt;I need advice on same sex dating?
man, all i can say is its your call, how comfortable are you with telling someone and can you handel what comes after being out.....some people are not accepting. this is a pretty big judgement call for you. you could always observe him and see if you can determine that way, if staying closeted is what your aiming for.
I don't want to pick holes in your theory, but just be aware that you might be observing these things selectively because you want him to be gay. It sounds like you are infatuated with him, and you just need to know that you won't have a crystal-clear, unbiased view of him.
Not much you have said absolutely screams out that he might be attracted to guys too. He could be straight, and you don't want this to blow up in your face if you act on your thoughts. Tread really carefully. Good luck.
Is this guy that you're thinking about telling out as Gay? I'm a little confused about the question. If there's a gay guy in your class that you want to date/get to know then I would try hanging out and see if you guys get along as friends and go from there. Do you have a reason to think he's into you? If these are the case then I say go for it. I really regret not dating when I was younger because it's weird to be old and say I've never had a _____friend. %26gt;.%26lt;I need advice on same sex dating?
man, all i can say is its your call, how comfortable are you with telling someone and can you handel what comes after being out.....some people are not accepting. this is a pretty big judgement call for you. you could always observe him and see if you can determine that way, if staying closeted is what your aiming for.
I don't want to pick holes in your theory, but just be aware that you might be observing these things selectively because you want him to be gay. It sounds like you are infatuated with him, and you just need to know that you won't have a crystal-clear, unbiased view of him.
Not much you have said absolutely screams out that he might be attracted to guys too. He could be straight, and you don't want this to blow up in your face if you act on your thoughts. Tread really carefully. Good luck.
HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
I have opened up a dialog with them as I feel i am willing to wait until around christmas time to possibly live together which is waiting for about 15 and a half months, they tell me they can make no promises and they dont know when it could happen, is it wrong that I want to live with my lover? Is it asking too much too soon? Am I in the wrong for wanting to live with someone i see being with for years to come? I feel daddy and the sister come first and that I am not a priority even though they say i am, they asked the sisters opinion already and the sister said that it was too soon and yet this person asked me to be in a committed relationship after less than a week. I have made them my priority and put them in thier proper respectful place and all i feel is like a part time girlfriend. Please community set me straight if i am in the wrong here, I really need everyones advice. Thank you so much, look forward to your answers.HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
umm....damn champ...the daddy pays the bills and you just ****** the *****??? seems like a win win situation for you....lol.....btw of course they are family....your just another bf....HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
Your not wrong if that's how you feel, but she obviously is not ready. You say you have put her first and respected her, but you seem desperate and pushy. This is a relationship, with it comes understanding and compromise. So let it go. Her family have been with her longer, they may come first and that should not be a problem. Let it play out.
umm....damn champ...the daddy pays the bills and you just ****** the *****??? seems like a win win situation for you....lol.....btw of course they are family....your just another bf....HELP need advice, I have been dating someone for almost 6 mo they live with daddy, it is bothering me alot?
Your not wrong if that's how you feel, but she obviously is not ready. You say you have put her first and respected her, but you seem desperate and pushy. This is a relationship, with it comes understanding and compromise. So let it go. Her family have been with her longer, they may come first and that should not be a problem. Let it play out.
I need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
Ive been crying for the last week over everything. like i feel like nobody likes me and i dont feel pretty. I never get compliments. But there is this girl who is popular and she is a brat to me but im her ';friend';. Like everytime i have fun shes like dont ever do that again or ur so weird. She also tells me that i have wrinkles but i dont. I try to be happy but i cant went she is around. She has diabeties and shes kinda chubby. Im always quiet i dont talk much and im skinny. My mom tells me that shes only mean to me because she is jealous because im pretty and skinny. But there is alot of girls at my school that are pretty and skinny like me. She is really pretty but her personality is ugly. She is a brunette but she is kinda stupid and she dances like a stripper. She wears short short shorts and it has her butt hanging out. She thinks she is better than everyone one else!!!! She gets alot of dates and ive only had a few in my life that i really fell for them. But i have never kissed a guy. She has kissed probably ever guy in are grade. So will u please tell me whats going on b4 i lose it. Im desperate about everything my mom says that she might waant me to take medicine to make me happier. Please be as seriouse as u can pleaseI need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
Aw darlin' it definitely sounds like she's jealous of you. She is probably just as self-conscious as you seem to be and, because you are shy, she feels like she can be rude and make fun of you because she doesn't think you can defend yourself. I would try and avoid her. She obviously is not a good friend and isn't helping you feel better about yourself.
One reason you may not be getting compliments is because of your shyness. Try and open up a little, talk to the boys in your classes, maybe even flirt a little. The more people know you, the more they will notice you, and the more likely they will have positive things to say about you =)
Also, it seems like the reasons guys like her is because she's kind of a ****. Don't stoop to her gross level. While that sort of behavior might turn a guy on, ultimately, most decent guys are not looking for girls like that.
So show some guys what you're like on the inside, drop that ';friend'; off your social network, and just be yourself. The right guy WILL come around. Some times it just takes time. Stay positive and know that you're loved.I need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
doesn't sound like you need help. this entire thing was just bashing on a girl you call your friend. your the backstabber here.old lipstick
Aw darlin' it definitely sounds like she's jealous of you. She is probably just as self-conscious as you seem to be and, because you are shy, she feels like she can be rude and make fun of you because she doesn't think you can defend yourself. I would try and avoid her. She obviously is not a good friend and isn't helping you feel better about yourself.
One reason you may not be getting compliments is because of your shyness. Try and open up a little, talk to the boys in your classes, maybe even flirt a little. The more people know you, the more they will notice you, and the more likely they will have positive things to say about you =)
Also, it seems like the reasons guys like her is because she's kind of a ****. Don't stoop to her gross level. While that sort of behavior might turn a guy on, ultimately, most decent guys are not looking for girls like that.
So show some guys what you're like on the inside, drop that ';friend'; off your social network, and just be yourself. The right guy WILL come around. Some times it just takes time. Stay positive and know that you're loved.I need advice on life and dating and school? Please help!!!?
doesn't sound like you need help. this entire thing was just bashing on a girl you call your friend. your the backstabber here.
Please help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
i would be extremely appreciative if anyone could offer me some advice!
I was given an EDD at an 9week and 6 day scan of 25th jan. Counting the 25th jan as my 40th week of pregnancy, means that i got my first positive pregnancy test on 4th may at exactly 2 weeks of pregnancy. this doesn't make sense to me! My last menstrual period prior to this was 3rd april which would have given me an edd of 7th Jan and would mean that the first positive preg test would have been at 5w 3d pregnant.
many many thanksPlease help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
With Ultrasounds, anything before 12 weeks is based on measurements of the baby. Anything after 12 weeks they say can be out by up to 2 weeks.
So, your period was 3rd April. You wouldn't have ovulated until about the 10-15 April on a standard cycle. You could have ovulated later.
(Though the 4th May does sound a bit extreme)
Your positive pregnancy test could have been at 2 weeks, as your body starts producing hCG hormone when your baby implants into the uterus. This could have been early for you.
Your baby could also have been slow at developing. It's not unusual or bad, but it does mean you have a chance of having a small baby.
My first ultrasound showed i was 6 weeks 4 days. They told me to come back for my 12 week ultrasound in 4 weeks. I booked the appointment that day for 4 weeks later, but when i went in the baby was only measuring 10 weeks, and i had to go back 2 weeks later.
I guess it depends on the person doing the ultrasound as well, and how far out they stick the measurements. When you watch, they don't have a lot of room for mistakes.Please help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
You ovulate around 2 weeks before your period or after (either way between day 10-14 of your cycle). So this makes sense. Some family planning centres/drs take it back to the date of your last period which is the date your thinking of, however if they've done a scan and such then i'm sure they know what they're on about. However wait til the next scan and when baby is bigger they can get better measurements etc, although its not likely to change. But either way your gonna have a baby from the 7th to 25th Jan which is fantatsic. Many congrats and good luck with the pregnancy.
hi im 26 weeks pregnant going from early scan date but going from lmp i should be 28 weeks. i discussed this with my midwife who said i coulve ovulated late and my cycle is usually 32 days not your usual 28 days. i just go with dates from scan now as these are the dates the hopsital use and will go by if your overdue etc. as long as baby is healthy i wouldnt worry bout it too much although it did really annoy me at first as we were trying so i knew my dates, as its only an estimate anyway x
hiya maybe your baby is growing well for its age or you got your dates mixed up, i thought i was due on 28th august according to my last period but when i went for my scan they changed it to beginning sept, i wouldn't worry to much, as long as you and baby are healthy you should be fine xx
Not too sure about your dates mix up but as long as you give birth to a healthy baby, nothing else matters. Dates are just numbers. The reality is that the baby will come when it's ready, not when some nurse or midwife says. Good luck and hope you have a lovely baby
It's based on your menstrual cycle, they count it as 2 weeks BEFORE your first missed period as that is when you are ovulating and will have actually fallen pregnant. You just don't know about it till your period doesn't come on.
You will be given another ultrasound later on and they will measure the baby then too. If she is bigger they will change your due date if not then they won't. Your right though having a positive at 2 weeks is pretty much impossible.
go to babycenter.com and due the dd-prediction based on you Last menstrual Period and take that as your due date.
I was given an EDD at an 9week and 6 day scan of 25th jan. Counting the 25th jan as my 40th week of pregnancy, means that i got my first positive pregnancy test on 4th may at exactly 2 weeks of pregnancy. this doesn't make sense to me! My last menstrual period prior to this was 3rd april which would have given me an edd of 7th Jan and would mean that the first positive preg test would have been at 5w 3d pregnant.
many many thanksPlease help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
With Ultrasounds, anything before 12 weeks is based on measurements of the baby. Anything after 12 weeks they say can be out by up to 2 weeks.
So, your period was 3rd April. You wouldn't have ovulated until about the 10-15 April on a standard cycle. You could have ovulated later.
(Though the 4th May does sound a bit extreme)
Your positive pregnancy test could have been at 2 weeks, as your body starts producing hCG hormone when your baby implants into the uterus. This could have been early for you.
Your baby could also have been slow at developing. It's not unusual or bad, but it does mean you have a chance of having a small baby.
My first ultrasound showed i was 6 weeks 4 days. They told me to come back for my 12 week ultrasound in 4 weeks. I booked the appointment that day for 4 weeks later, but when i went in the baby was only measuring 10 weeks, and i had to go back 2 weeks later.
I guess it depends on the person doing the ultrasound as well, and how far out they stick the measurements. When you watch, they don't have a lot of room for mistakes.Please help, advice needed on pregnancy dates confusion?!? ?
You ovulate around 2 weeks before your period or after (either way between day 10-14 of your cycle). So this makes sense. Some family planning centres/drs take it back to the date of your last period which is the date your thinking of, however if they've done a scan and such then i'm sure they know what they're on about. However wait til the next scan and when baby is bigger they can get better measurements etc, although its not likely to change. But either way your gonna have a baby from the 7th to 25th Jan which is fantatsic. Many congrats and good luck with the pregnancy.
hi im 26 weeks pregnant going from early scan date but going from lmp i should be 28 weeks. i discussed this with my midwife who said i coulve ovulated late and my cycle is usually 32 days not your usual 28 days. i just go with dates from scan now as these are the dates the hopsital use and will go by if your overdue etc. as long as baby is healthy i wouldnt worry bout it too much although it did really annoy me at first as we were trying so i knew my dates, as its only an estimate anyway x
hiya maybe your baby is growing well for its age or you got your dates mixed up, i thought i was due on 28th august according to my last period but when i went for my scan they changed it to beginning sept, i wouldn't worry to much, as long as you and baby are healthy you should be fine xx
Not too sure about your dates mix up but as long as you give birth to a healthy baby, nothing else matters. Dates are just numbers. The reality is that the baby will come when it's ready, not when some nurse or midwife says. Good luck and hope you have a lovely baby
It's based on your menstrual cycle, they count it as 2 weeks BEFORE your first missed period as that is when you are ovulating and will have actually fallen pregnant. You just don't know about it till your period doesn't come on.
You will be given another ultrasound later on and they will measure the baby then too. If she is bigger they will change your due date if not then they won't. Your right though having a positive at 2 weeks is pretty much impossible.
go to babycenter.com and due the dd-prediction based on you Last menstrual Period and take that as your due date.
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