I've been seeing a guy for three months. I'm 30 he's 34. We really hit it off on all levels, he's so thoughtful, fixes everything in my house,texts me throughout the day, just very thoughtful.I thought it was nice to have a guy not pressure me into a serious relationship but now after brining up the exclusivity talk he says he is not ready.a)because he got out of a 5 yr relationship 1 yr ago and wants to be sure before getting into another and b)he is going away for military training due to a promotion for 8 months in May and is scared because his last gf freaked out whenever he left. I've never had a guy want to take it slow so it concerns me.I'm trying to be patient but it scares me to emotionally invest and risk getting hurt. He's really good to me, this is really the only issue but to me it's a big one.I feel like we could have a really good thing but fear if he isn't sure now, he will never be. How long should I give him? Suggestions on how to deal with him? I feel sort of lost.Adults please read...looking for advice on a sticky dating situation...thank you!?
Wow...this is a tough one, but if he said himself he is not ready for anything serious, than you pretty much have your answer there. Would you be able to deal with it when he leaves for 8mths...let me tell you, from experience,its very tough being with a military guy especially when he's away. Just enjoy what time you have with him, live for the moment, and if you guys are still together when he gets back, than you know this was meant to be. Good luck!Adults please read...looking for advice on a sticky dating situation...thank you!?
You should take it slow. It's about time! Just let it go - why do you feel to put a ';rush'; on things?!?!
If you be patient, you are probably better off ending it before your relationship gets too serious. You shouldn't try to change yourself or him for the relationship to work.
Good Luck!
He's telling you that you are going to get hurt if you invest. He wants his freedom when he is away. He wants you on his term but you know that's not the way it works. Ask yourself, ';What would a woman with self respect, confidence and a few good men insight do?'; She'd move on! Don't screw him anymore. How can you have a relationship with a guy that's not there most of the year? You know you can't. I can hear it in your writings. And don't buy into that, ';I just got out of a long relationship crap!'; It's just an excuse. Believe me!!!! There's a million guys out there that would love to fix your pipes! His loss, bu-bye! Move on, girlfriend! You deserve better.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
i need a little advice on this internet dating/talking thing. I have had a set mind on things before i got a myspace and facebook that it will just be for entertainment and to stay in contact with friends. but there is this one guy on there that i have been chatting with for 3 months who is 20 years old, a junior in college, seems to be Intelligent and a very person, but you never know, he could be a pervert, some where in his 40's and jack's off to my pictures. haha. I went through his friends list and saw that there were plenty of guy friends on his page, which indicates that he is somewhat real, for guys would not add another guy to their page who they do not know. Im just a little skeptical on if i should give out my # then meet him. Im also scared about the fact that they if it is the person on the pics he could just be photogenic and be hideous in person. What do you think? have you ever talked to someone off of the internet and meet up with them? Did they look exactly like their pics?Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
i need a little advice on this internet dating/talking thing. I have had a set mind on things before i got a myspace and facebook that it will just be for entertainment and to stay in contact with friends. but there is this one guy on there that i have been chatting with for 3 months who is 20 years old, a junior in college, seems to be Intelligent and a very person, but you never know, he could be a pervert, some where in his 40's and jack's off to my pictures. haha. I went through his friends list and saw that there were plenty of guy friends on his page, which indicates that he is somewhat real, for guys would not add another guy to their page who they do not know. Im just a little skeptical on if i should give out my # then meet him. Im also scared about the fact that they if it is the person on the pics he could just be photogenic and be hideous in person. What do you think? have you ever talked to someone off of the internet and meet up with them? Did they look exactly like their pics?Help! I need a little advice on this Internet Dating thing!?
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
first contact a few of the guys on his friends list. ask them about this guy. if they have ever met up with him is he really a nice guy, is he interested in dateing anyone ext.
dont trust pictures on the internet. its mostly guys you cant trust with pics or older women. teens and young women tend to put their actual pics on myspce and whatnot.
if you do meet up with him some place make sure it is some where public. like the mall were there are plenty of witnesses.
be warned if he has seen your actuall pics and you havent seen his, he will know who you are but you wont know who he is. this is why you want to do it some place public. NEVER EVER meet up for the first time at your home or his. also dont start by giveing him your number because he can do a reverse look up and find exactly were you live.
also if this guy isnt a perv dont be suprised if he still isnt the guy in the pics because he could have put a pic of him a year or two ago up.
I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
I find them to be very loving caring and passionate. I know most don't marry outside their own race (I am a mixture of mostly blk,wht, native Am), I am far from being a kid and the older men seem more open and willing. Yes, they are smaller in the plumbing area, but other talents make up for that. If any one has some good advice for me it would be great. I currently have a guy to which we are building a friendship. If it goes further I want to be prepared, or know what to expect.I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
Some like to date but will not marry. I had a guy play me and my best friend, but we got him back. Some are real freaky, like any other man so be careful.
But over all they are cute and nice.I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
my best friend at one point was a japanese/german guy, looked more japanese, who may as well have been my boyfriend. they are just like other guys, nothing special you need to know about them. they eat interesting food though, sometimes they like you to try it. without him, i never would have tried urchin i think it was. so i think thats all =]
so i guess it's true, white girls have smaller brains than other humans
Some like to date but will not marry. I had a guy play me and my best friend, but we got him back. Some are real freaky, like any other man so be careful.
But over all they are cute and nice.I like men of Asian Ancestry, especially East Indian, any advice from Amr ladies who have dated any would hlp?
my best friend at one point was a japanese/german guy, looked more japanese, who may as well have been my boyfriend. they are just like other guys, nothing special you need to know about them. they eat interesting food though, sometimes they like you to try it. without him, i never would have tried urchin i think it was. so i think thats all =]
so i guess it's true, white girls have smaller brains than other humans
What should i do? advice with guys and dating?
okay there's this guy i REALLY like. and he told my best friend he wants to ask me out (apparently he's liked me for a while).
but there are some major problems. my parents would probably murder me if they found out. no joke.
and i honestly don't see the point in going out right now (im a sophomore in HS). i personally can't see what good it would do. if any.
but he's so different and hes like practically perfect for me you could say. i feel like i can't say yes to him (i'd feel guilty if i snuck around with him) and i dont want to hold him back. but theres this part of me that doesn't want him to move on from me.
what should i tell him?What should i do? advice with guys and dating?
Tell him the truth about what you feel. And if he really likes you, he'll probably understand.
And I know what you mean about the parents. I would try to reason with them and bring it up randomly one night with the one parent that you're closest to.
Hope this helps!
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but there are some major problems. my parents would probably murder me if they found out. no joke.
and i honestly don't see the point in going out right now (im a sophomore in HS). i personally can't see what good it would do. if any.
but he's so different and hes like practically perfect for me you could say. i feel like i can't say yes to him (i'd feel guilty if i snuck around with him) and i dont want to hold him back. but theres this part of me that doesn't want him to move on from me.
what should i tell him?What should i do? advice with guys and dating?
Tell him the truth about what you feel. And if he really likes you, he'll probably understand.
And I know what you mean about the parents. I would try to reason with them and bring it up randomly one night with the one parent that you're closest to.
Hope this helps!
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I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I just started dating this guy today and I'm still not sure if it's really what I want. I mean he makes me happy and he's very sweet, but I kind of think I still have feelings for my ex. I thought dating my current boyfriend would help me get my mind off of my ex, well I told my mom about it and she started asking me a lot of questions. Some questions I really didn't know the answer to I answered with an ';I don't know'; and she got all mad and asked when our (her and my) relationship started going downhill. Now she won't speak to me... I don't know what to do...should I break up with my boyfriend or just let things go? Please, any advice is appreciated!!I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
So ive been dating a boy we will call him jason for 9 months on saturday. When we first started dating it was really nice and wonderful. It still is i love him he is just really immature and really sexual and it is kind of obnoxious.
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
oh well talk to him some more
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
GO 4 IT
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
oh well talk to him some more
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
GO 4 IT
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I have been dating a man for nearly a year now who has a daughtor. I love them both but I want to find people in similar situations and get some advice.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
bh37bh37@yahoo.com
RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
bh37bh37@yahoo.com
RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
My first date with her,plz some advices?
what should i wear?what to talk about with her?am thinkin to bring a red rose for her but i dont kno if it's gonna sound like am rushin it..advices plzMy first date with her,plz some advices?
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
I want to start dating again but have some issues. Such as where do you meet someone with out it being some where that you get in trouble such as a bar ect., i am also self conscious of my weight as i weight 205lbs 5ft 4in tall but proportional. I dont leave the house much. My income is limited, or low income, really budgeted trying to get disability. Many issues here. Age 32. What do you all think and suggest here with all of this...what positive hope and advise do you have for me...Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.
Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
Well...this guy I frequent the same gym, and we met a few months ago, and he always flirted with me, he even asked me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out, or go to a movie, but I never did.So a few months ago, and we set some dates, and out plans never went through, so we never got the chance to hook up and plus I stopped going to the gym so I never really ran into him.So I started going back to the gym, a few weeks ago, and when he seen me he was smiling, and he asked me out again, but his uncle/friend passed away...and I verified this so it actually DID happen,and he apologized and we had a long talk, and he told me was sorry, and that he doesnt want me to think he doesn't want to be bothered with me, but that he's trying to get out of financial difficulties and want's he gets this second job ';it's on and crackin';lol..so would you say he likes me or pullin my leg?Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!wholesale cosmetics
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!
Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
He had his daughter when he was young and she recently turned 18. His daughter is the #1 priority in his life, and I understand - he's a great dad %26amp; is responsible.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I just started dating this guy today and I'm still not sure if it's really what I want. I mean he makes me happy and he's very sweet, but I kind of think I still have feelings for my ex. I thought dating my current boyfriend would help me get my mind off of my ex, well I told my mom about it and she started asking me a lot of questions. Some questions I really didn't know the answer to I answered with an ';I don't know'; and she got all mad and asked when our (her and my) relationship started going downhill. Now she won't speak to me... I don't know what to do...should I break up with my boyfriend or just let things go? Please, any advice is appreciated!!I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
I am going through the EXACT same problem. Im just trying to see how this guy goes, i mean the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. The only way to get over an ex is to move on, but take your time. If you rush through it youll never get over him. Tips: dont text your ex when your lonely or miss him, dont check up on his facebook/myspace, and deff dont talk about him with your new boyfriend. And your mom might have a lot on her mind and just wants you to be happy and is trying to help you move on by being agressive about it. Hope this helps :)I really need some advice...I just started dating this guy today.?
This depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you wanna get back with your ex? If so, then you may not be ready to jump into another relationship. Just take things slow with your boyfriend.
As for your mom, you should be open to her and let her know how hard it is to be open with your parents about your personal relationships. I know it was hard for me.
So is this guy a rebound or do you really like him? And besides you just started dating him today, shouldn't u wait a little to form a decision? And for your mom problems, she'll get over it.
You can do it, just give it a try.
Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
So ive been dating a boy we will call him jason for 9 months on saturday. When we first started dating it was really nice and wonderful. It still is i love him he is just really immature and really sexual and it is kind of obnoxious.
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
GO 4 IT
I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
oh well talk to him some more
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Then there is my best friend we'll call him andrew. We have been friends for 5-6 years. He is like my big brother, a role model everything. I used to have a crush on him and I thought that I was over my crush with him. We have recently started talking again cause we where neighbors and he and i both moved yet we went to the same school. But anyways now i think i am falling for him hard core. and i really have no clue what to do. any advice?Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
If you can describe your boyfriend as immature and obnoxious then the wonderful feelings you had for him are already in the past. Life is too short to waste and you could be wasting both his time and yours. Though it's hard, call these last nine months a bit of fun, and then i suggest you move on.
As for 'Andrew', decisions regarding a friend are always very tricky. Falling in love with your best friend is lucky, but only if you feel there is a chance they return your affections. People tend to be most cautious about approaching their friends because they are afraid of making things awkward, but if you are really close, then either its great and you start dating and it's wonderful, or its sad for a few days then you move on. The torture is not knowing.Does anyone have any advice for someone whos dating but thinks she is falling in love with her best friend?
Dump your immature boyfriend if he's bugging you that much and if you like your mate tell him and see if he feels the same if not then he'll understand since he's your mate and all and it will just be the same as it was before.
Good Luck, hope I helped!
And... HAPPY EASTER x
GO 4 IT
I say dump Jason and go for Andrew. If not tell your obnoxious boyfriend to cut it out and continue to be best friend with Andrew and date your boyfriend. It might be rough though, even trying to ask out your best friend.
Hope this helped :-)
ok so starting off your boyfriend he is going to keep being sexual he's a guy, that part of the relationship is like Pandora's Box once you open you cant shut it, trust me i am a guy i know, but honestly you got to fallow your heart i know that that really doesn't answer your question but you know lifes to short to fool around you know you only live once so talk to him and be obvious but subtle at the same time so you don't seem desperate. and tell your boyfriend that ';our relationship is just all physical there's no depth in it and i don't think i can do this anymore'; but that's is if you want to do that...
do what makes you happy!
talk to ur bf about him being to sexual and stuff. if he doesnt stop then break up with him and ask the guy out
this is two different problems.
1. your current bf.
if you don't feel that he is the right one for you, just end it.
2. your friend.
you have to find out if he has any feelings for you besides being your friend. talk to him and find out.
think about the future, who can u c yourself with in the future right now when you read this?
I've been in that situation alot of times..
Well first off, do you think he likes you back?
you really have to think about this, i know this is a hard decision..
If Andrew is like how you explained him to be, I think he'd last longer in a relationship.
oh well talk to him some more
OMG sweetie i had the SAME problem!
Okay so look....
Your relationship with Jason may seem awesome, but its not a good enough relationship if you think of him as obnoxious. I would see him more of a friend if I were you. One of those guys that you can call when your bored and just hang out regularly without a love interest. Now, it may be difficult for you now because 9 months isnt exactly a little amount of time. I recommend you break it off with him.
Now.....Andrew!
The fact that you have known him for a very long time is the key. You know who he truly is and thats what you love about him. Those are the type of guys you need to stick with.
I say you go for andrew. You shouldnt settle for less when you can accomplish an awesome relationship. You deserve to be completely happy!
Best of Luck girl!
First of all- break up with your current boyfriend. If you are having feelings for someone else you can't possibly be in love with him. Next tell your long time friend that you have feelings for him. Make sure you do not do this in reverse order because it is not fair to your boyfriend to keep him as a safety net if the other guy is not interested.
andrew would prob be better 4 u because he knows more bout u if u gt wid andrew it would prob last longer and ud prob be happier
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So what's the problem? You said Jason is turning obnoxious - so drop him and focus your attention to this andrew guy who's obviously known you more!
re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend first. Think about your life with your boyfriend 5 years from now, and be very honest with yourself. If you dont see any good prospects, and you think that this relationship is short term, then break up with him.
as for your friend, consider the 5-6 years of great friendship, and that crush that keeps coming back, maybe something beautiful can blossom with your friend, and maybe its just you who isnt letting it happen.
I think that it sounds like yooh two havent talked in a while.....so yooh two should get to know each other a lil' better......then see if there is any connection......yooh may be in love but then again......yooh might not....... lets just say this is a follow your heart situation.....=]
wow.
this is just like what happened to me lol
first off
break up with the other guy
ugh obnoxiousness is the worst hahah
and as for the best friend
im in this EXACT situation right now
ive been best friends with this guy since 7th grade
and recently he started dating this girl and i got really, really jealous
thats when i realized i might like him as more than a friend. . .you know?
well i decided it wasnt worth my friendship to him cause like you said hes like my big brother
but i think you should definately go for it
if might blossom into something beautiful
( i didnt cause i knew i would just ruin it - im not into long relationships and i would just lose my best friend)
if you really like your best mate then i think you should tell your current partner that you still would like to talk but need a bit off time off and see how you feel for a few days and then if you still like your best mate then you should think about getting with them :) x
Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I have been dating a man for nearly a year now who has a daughtor. I love them both but I want to find people in similar situations and get some advice.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
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RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
I am currently in the same situation with a 3 yr old daughter. I also love his daughter as if she was mine, and she and I really attached. I do have a lot of love for the little girl, but I always must keep in mind that she is not my child. I just get torn between of what the future might hold for the relationship between me and her father. I know it's wrong to think like that, but things do happen. I try to keep it at a friendship basis between his daughter and I, but it gets hard. I love the little girl too much. I think we should just take each day of the relationship one day at a time, and pray that it works out.Advice please for a woman without children on dating a man with a daughtor.?
make sure you include her!
Hi
ITs perfectly OK to be in that situation. You and his daughter need to gel well together. if she likes you then you are gonna have a good life (as long as the guy is great for you in the first case!). I am not married but councel friends and people and can understand your situation
x
tom
bh37bh37@yahoo.com
RUN LIKE H E LL!
You are very lucky,I have a stepdaughter,my life would not be the same with out her,I love her with all my Heart,Good Luck
My first date with her,plz some advices?
what should i wear?what to talk about with her?am thinkin to bring a red rose for her but i dont kno if it's gonna sound like am rushin it..advices plzMy first date with her,plz some advices?
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
if u like wearing jeans and a t-shirt it's ok just be yourself
ok so.... favorite colors,,,favorite songs,,, try to know her a bit things like this.... don't talk about her family.... or do what u want....
i like red roses but those she like red roses?? think about it?? it's a great idea from my point of seeing... but she might hate it.... just do what ur heart tells u on that exact time....
don't let ur mind wonder...just be there!!!! if it's necessarily touch her hand from time to time.... if she changes the subject be ok with it...if she wants to talk about something more important and mature go 4 it...
be yourself and hoped this helped.... best wishesMy first date with her,plz some advices?
Depending on if it's formal or not, you should wear whatever you would deem appropriate at the time. You should talk about whatever she wants to talk about. You could bring a flower, and depending on her personality, she probably won't think you are rushing.
Id leave the rose out, wear what you feel comfie in and let the talk come natural....relax and enjoy it! Good luck :o)
Hay to start the first date of not roses that's hsows to romantic already give her daisies for liveliness and its so easy talk about school ask her about herself maybe movies then talk about yourself .. Here's what to wear maybe a good pair of sneakers and a nice pair of good looking jeans and a nice nice nice shirt
a red nose, how sweet! :-) be yourself and wear whateva u feel sexy an comfortable in! good luck hun xx
be yourself ( strange )
Yeah. id leave the rose for later. Wear what you feel comfy in. You don't want to spend the whole night in some itchy sweater.
Wear whatever you want! Make casual talk for a while, ask her how she is, what she's up to, how's her week been, etc. A red rose would be a nice touch too.
Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
I want to start dating again but have some issues. Such as where do you meet someone with out it being some where that you get in trouble such as a bar ect., i am also self conscious of my weight as i weight 205lbs 5ft 4in tall but proportional. I dont leave the house much. My income is limited, or low income, really budgeted trying to get disability. Many issues here. Age 32. What do you all think and suggest here with all of this...what positive hope and advise do you have for me...Positive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.old lipstick
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etcPositive advice only please:I want to start dating again but have some issues....such as where to meet someone
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4'; and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.
Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
Well...this guy I frequent the same gym, and we met a few months ago, and he always flirted with me, he even asked me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out, or go to a movie, but I never did.So a few months ago, and we set some dates, and out plans never went through, so we never got the chance to hook up and plus I stopped going to the gym so I never really ran into him.So I started going back to the gym, a few weeks ago, and when he seen me he was smiling, and he asked me out again, but his uncle/friend passed away...and I verified this so it actually DID happen,and he apologized and we had a long talk, and he told me was sorry, and that he doesnt want me to think he doesn't want to be bothered with me, but that he's trying to get out of financial difficulties and want's he gets this second job ';it's on and crackin';lol..so would you say he likes me or pullin my leg?Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!
';GIRL';, the guy likes you. I know I know it's so hard trying to distingush the difference from the one's that love playing on women emotions and the one's that are truley real. From the story you are giving me, and this is based on hat you are saying he seem to be be diggin you. Give him a try, if it don't work out let him know. Want hurt to try.Mixed Signals(Dating Situation)In need of advice?
... sounds like he likes you, and that's all you really have to go on. I say go for it! ...better to have loved and lost then to miss the whole freaking bus, or something like that!
Well you never know with men, but it sounds like he could be genuine. You can always give it a try, but always keep your eyes open so you don't end up getting hurt!
Goo Luck!
Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
He had his daughter when he was young and she recently turned 18. His daughter is the #1 priority in his life, and I understand - he's a great dad %26amp; is responsible.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
We've expressed that we've both thought about what'd happen if we started dating %26amp; there is mutual interest, but he's in the tail-end of the process of getting his life back in order (he got divorced ~5 yrs ago). He says that he's almost paid off his debts and once that happens, we'll give dating a go. BTW, I live in a state where things are subject to community property (50/50), which bites.
I've never been married and never dated a divorced guy before, but I can imagine it's more frustrating than he says it is with the alimony payments, etc. He always wants to put himself in the best light with me and never seems bitter or resentful, but that also means that I'm kind of left in the dark w/ how hard divorce can be.
I just want to know the reality of the situation so I can move on if necessary rather than wait.Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
If you are interested in him and he is a free man, take it easy and be honest about things when they happen and you don't understand them.
The fact you have never been married is going to make it harder for you to understand some things about his past. And it won't be easy, because if he was hurt and is in debt, chances are he is still a bit resentful and bitter, so you will be judged by things other women did to him.
I guess you'll have to talk a lot about things as they happen.
Some people will tell you to stay away from this man because of his baggage; but that's for you to decide.
If at some point you feel you cannot handle things that are a reality in his life - like his ex and his teenage daughter- then be honest and call it quits. Good luck!Thinking about dating a divorced dad. Any advice?
You'll know after you meet the daughter what you are in for.
I don't think you are understanding or maybe taking it all wrong.
There is allot that he is telling you, 1) he has learned allot from his divorce. 2) He is very responsible man. 3) He is only giving you heads up on the fact that he doesn't want to hurt anybody especially you.
There is not allot men out there like this. I think this sounds like that you are wanting some thing that is not yours to take. If you are wanting fall in love with this guy then you should stand up beside him and prove to him that you are the one that he needs to fall in love with and and still love his daughter.
Right now this guy has allot of doubt to dating women, but you have 1 foot in the door so don't close it.
When I was single again, These are the things that eliminated a guy from a date.
1. Kids he was still responsible for
2. Still ';rather married';. I already knew that for the first several years, the women a guy dated were ';bridges'; out of the marriage, and no one he would end up with. I eliminated those guys immediately... looks like he ';unqualifies'; in my list for the first two.
3. Non smoker
4. Have a job he likes
5. No big depression problems or financial problems
6. At least as much education as I had
7. Good sense of humor and adventure... (I liked to travel.)
8. Hobbies he likes to do without me
try your own list.
Flee. His daughter is #1 in his life which means you will ALWAYS come second. Find someone who is more open-minded with his priorities..
Ok so you've never been married and you want to date a guy that's got a boat load of baggage from his previous marriage? Why in the world would you do that? I'll tell ya you will never take priority over his daughter, that's good and it's bad. I say move on and find yourself someone like you, single never been married, healthy, no baggage, etc...
I'd avoid this man. He was married long enough to have an 18 year old daughter...that's a long time. The fact that you (and maybe he) think it's unfair that he split the proceeds of the marriage 50/50 is a red flag. OF COURSE, they should split everything 50/50. They were married and they had a legal partnership. Most states give that or more. (In some states the injured spouse gets 60 percent). If he has to pay her alimony it's because she obviously didn't build up a career because THEY decided she should stay home and raise the child mostly. That was their agreement. Don't date this man. You are not thinking clearly and you will resent any money he spends on his daughter, too.
If it is just a date, why not??
However, if you are exposing yourself to the possibility of getting into a permanent relationship such as marriage, it is a gamble that u need to be aware of.
Marriage is never a guarantee. Everyone knows that. He may be the perfect one for you now but there is a possibility that he may not be in future.
Enjoy every moment you have with him as it goes along. Only time will tell if he is the one for you or not. Good luck!!
If he was ready to date and have a relationship, he wouldn't be so worried about the debts from a marriage that ended 5 years ago. Also, the ';child'; is 18 and an adult.
So, I think he is using these things as an excuse. He is not ready and you should not wait around.
I've been divorced for 5 years and have dated many divorced Dads. They are usually a bit more cautious yet sometimes are more motivated to be better the next time around, as am I. If he wasn't a dedicated Dad, then that would be a huge red flag. It is a good sign that he can be loyal and committed.
I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
Is there anyone out there who has faith in our relationship other than us? I know the odds are against me and her but we can make it happen. Im curious about everyones opinions or thoughts.I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
I have faith in the human spirit and that's something you too have in common and actually the only thing that matters. As far as setting the example, I think it's been done a thousand times over already in American society so there is actualy nothing to prove to anyone there. As long as you two are happy with each other, nothing else should matter.
From a religious standpoint, if you are muslim that might soften the blow to her family. If you are not then, again, the love you two have needs to be strong enough to withstand any storms. If you have that, you need nothing else.I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
...Is that weird or something? What the hell you want us to tell you? I guess it depends on what type of people you two are. Anything is possible.
ONLY DA FAITH OF YOU AND YOUR GIRL MATTERS...SOMETIMES I STRUGGLE HAVING FAITH IN MA OWN MARRIAGE! I would just say expect some big cultural differences and be patient!
its ok as long as u 2 like each other and dont abuse each other
answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
LEAVE HER!!! Shes from Afghanistan, that means shes a terrorist PLANNING TO PLANT A BOMB IN YOUR STOMACH AND BLOW YOU UP IN A CITY
Her parents wont approve
How about you get with a sista
I have faith in the human spirit and that's something you too have in common and actually the only thing that matters. As far as setting the example, I think it's been done a thousand times over already in American society so there is actualy nothing to prove to anyone there. As long as you two are happy with each other, nothing else should matter.
From a religious standpoint, if you are muslim that might soften the blow to her family. If you are not then, again, the love you two have needs to be strong enough to withstand any storms. If you have that, you need nothing else.I'm a Black male dating an Afghani Female. Any advice or help?
...Is that weird or something? What the hell you want us to tell you? I guess it depends on what type of people you two are. Anything is possible.
ONLY DA FAITH OF YOU AND YOUR GIRL MATTERS...SOMETIMES I STRUGGLE HAVING FAITH IN MA OWN MARRIAGE! I would just say expect some big cultural differences and be patient!
its ok as long as u 2 like each other and dont abuse each other
answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
LEAVE HER!!! Shes from Afghanistan, that means shes a terrorist PLANNING TO PLANT A BOMB IN YOUR STOMACH AND BLOW YOU UP IN A CITY
Her parents wont approve
How about you get with a sista
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