Thursday, August 19, 2010
Ladies im entering the dating scene again any good advice for 08'?
don't give up your goodies, you will know if he really wants you he will wait on you and in the process he will still treat you as though your his girl or women with the utter most respect.
Any advice for returning to the dating scene?
About 9 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We were together for a year and a half and, as far as I knew, had a near perfect relationship. Out of nowhere she just broke up with me one day and left. Needless to say, it was an extreme system shock.
Before I met her I had never had any luck when it came to dating. Never a yes to a date or anything.
Since the break up I've tried my luck with some other women, but none of them were interested either.
Now I have met a girl who may actually be interested in me. She hasn't said anything directly, but my mate's girlfriend is her best friend. She says that the girl is interested alright. We haven't gone out yet, but are going to next weekend.
So basically, does anyone have any advice for this? The only experience I've ever had with dating has been with the one girl.Any advice for returning to the dating scene?
Ask her out on a date and take it from there...Best advice someone can give is learn by Trial and error....Learn from mistakes.....Remember what went wrong in you previous relationship/s and make sure it doesn't happen again...Any advice for returning to the dating scene?
If you already know that she has interest you are well on your way.. when you do go out, make sure you are complimentary but not fake, ask probative questions, but don't be overly sexual or creepy. Be who you usually are and she will do the same...
It seems harder than it is, but first dates can be alot of fun.
wow
Yeah, sooner the better!!!
Talk to who every excites you-- watch the eyes!
just be yourself.. take it easy.. dont be so anxious.. enjoy!
just be casual and of course be yourself and everything would be okay..
be clean , take a shower , brush teeth , hair, put on a light scented cologne , not the cheap kind and dont talk and say stupid things .
Dude just go with the flow , be yourself and if it's meant to be then so be it . Just don't push the issue's and time will tell !!
just be yourself and calm.
Have you tried going on internet dating sites, like match.com or lavalife? Remember that dating is just getting to know someone, and allowing them to get a chance to know you. At best, you'll find out you have a connection that can turn into a great friendship or a relationship. At worst, you have another experience under your belt to de-mystify dating and build your confidence.
Go on as many dates as you can with as many women as possible, so that no ONE date is invested with all the weight of an arranged marriage. Its also good to meet a wide range of women, because it sounds like you have a fixed idea of what you're looking for (your ex that you thought you had a near perfect relationship with) and the truth of the matter is, you may not even be able to picture who's right for you until you see whats out there. Keep an open mind...good luck!
Have a look at http://www.yourromanceguide.com
They have articles on dating, break ups
just be your self and relax youll get back into it soon enough.
Before I met her I had never had any luck when it came to dating. Never a yes to a date or anything.
Since the break up I've tried my luck with some other women, but none of them were interested either.
Now I have met a girl who may actually be interested in me. She hasn't said anything directly, but my mate's girlfriend is her best friend. She says that the girl is interested alright. We haven't gone out yet, but are going to next weekend.
So basically, does anyone have any advice for this? The only experience I've ever had with dating has been with the one girl.Any advice for returning to the dating scene?
Ask her out on a date and take it from there...Best advice someone can give is learn by Trial and error....Learn from mistakes.....Remember what went wrong in you previous relationship/s and make sure it doesn't happen again...Any advice for returning to the dating scene?
If you already know that she has interest you are well on your way.. when you do go out, make sure you are complimentary but not fake, ask probative questions, but don't be overly sexual or creepy. Be who you usually are and she will do the same...
It seems harder than it is, but first dates can be alot of fun.
wow
Yeah, sooner the better!!!
Talk to who every excites you-- watch the eyes!
just be yourself.. take it easy.. dont be so anxious.. enjoy!
just be casual and of course be yourself and everything would be okay..
be clean , take a shower , brush teeth , hair, put on a light scented cologne , not the cheap kind and dont talk and say stupid things .
Dude just go with the flow , be yourself and if it's meant to be then so be it . Just don't push the issue's and time will tell !!
just be yourself and calm.
Have you tried going on internet dating sites, like match.com or lavalife? Remember that dating is just getting to know someone, and allowing them to get a chance to know you. At best, you'll find out you have a connection that can turn into a great friendship or a relationship. At worst, you have another experience under your belt to de-mystify dating and build your confidence.
Go on as many dates as you can with as many women as possible, so that no ONE date is invested with all the weight of an arranged marriage. Its also good to meet a wide range of women, because it sounds like you have a fixed idea of what you're looking for (your ex that you thought you had a near perfect relationship with) and the truth of the matter is, you may not even be able to picture who's right for you until you see whats out there. Keep an open mind...good luck!
Have a look at http://www.yourromanceguide.com
They have articles on dating, break ups
just be your self and relax youll get back into it soon enough.
I'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
we've been dating for about 3 months now. he is very gentle and caring. he doesn't want to discuss his previous relationship because he says he doesnt want to remember the past..which i think is crap.he lives in italy and i live in america. he bought me a ticket to visit him recently,i stayed at his house. i'm west-indian ..he's well known because he is a professional soccer player. most people say nigerians are scammers which i believe to be true. we talk every day web cam of by phone. i'm scared of not knowing him well enough and of the culture difference..other african women are very rude towards me when we are together in public..i dnt understand because even though i'm not african i consider myself to be black woman..will his family accept our relationship? ....my questions and statments are all over the place..i just need some adviceI'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
Several questions:
1. Are you in the market for a husband?
2. Do you regard this man as husband material?
3. Do you ever wish children?
4. Is he father material?
If you answer no to any of these, you are wasting your time... as my daddy always said, ';never shop in a store in which you intend to buy nothing.';
It appears you have real doubt about this guy. If you are just playing around? find, don't get pregnant.
If you are old enough to make a commitment, this guy doesn't seem to qualify.
Personal opinion: Run. Sounds like a typical scam to me.I'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
if he isn't telling you the whole truth, how can you trust you actually HAVE a relationship and you aren't just a bit of fun...
Several questions:
1. Are you in the market for a husband?
2. Do you regard this man as husband material?
3. Do you ever wish children?
4. Is he father material?
If you answer no to any of these, you are wasting your time... as my daddy always said, ';never shop in a store in which you intend to buy nothing.';
It appears you have real doubt about this guy. If you are just playing around? find, don't get pregnant.
If you are old enough to make a commitment, this guy doesn't seem to qualify.
Personal opinion: Run. Sounds like a typical scam to me.I'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
if he isn't telling you the whole truth, how can you trust you actually HAVE a relationship and you aren't just a bit of fun...
Any advice for a capricornn dating a cancer? we also have a libra daughter...are we doomed?
any advice??Any advice for a capricornn dating a cancer? we also have a libra daughter...are we doomed?
Why would you think that any of that matters when it comes to love?
Advise would be not to look to the stars for your answers or guidance. Look to your self and people you surround yourself with.Any advice for a capricornn dating a cancer? we also have a libra daughter...are we doomed?
Princess Deb...I'm not one to be the bearer of bad news. BUT, in your post before you said great match, united for life, etc etc. I know 4 capricorn and cancer couples, all of which are divorced today. So apparently, it's either not as great as you say, or maybe the sign just doesn't make a difference.
Capricorn %26amp; Cancer
A union of talents quite likely to produce harmony. Cancer is delighted to take care of the home and children while Capricorn goes out in the world to earn the family's keep. Each helps the other to fulfill an ambition, in realms that are perfectly complementary. The Saturnine personality benefits from Cancer's intuition, and the moonchild appreciates Capricorn's ability to achieve financial security. They take the time to love, understand, and cuddle each other. An ideal marriage: conventional, happy, and united for life.dermalogica
Why would you think that any of that matters when it comes to love?
Advise would be not to look to the stars for your answers or guidance. Look to your self and people you surround yourself with.Any advice for a capricornn dating a cancer? we also have a libra daughter...are we doomed?
Princess Deb...I'm not one to be the bearer of bad news. BUT, in your post before you said great match, united for life, etc etc. I know 4 capricorn and cancer couples, all of which are divorced today. So apparently, it's either not as great as you say, or maybe the sign just doesn't make a difference.
Capricorn %26amp; Cancer
A union of talents quite likely to produce harmony. Cancer is delighted to take care of the home and children while Capricorn goes out in the world to earn the family's keep. Each helps the other to fulfill an ambition, in realms that are perfectly complementary. The Saturnine personality benefits from Cancer's intuition, and the moonchild appreciates Capricorn's ability to achieve financial security. They take the time to love, understand, and cuddle each other. An ideal marriage: conventional, happy, and united for life.
Stuck dating two girls, need advice badly!?
I'm stuck between two girls... help?
There's one girl I really like alot. I've been seeing her for a month now. We're not officially in a relationship, though she says she's starting to like me. We've been dating a lot and getting to know each other, because as per her request, she's inexperienced and she wants to take it slow.
I met another girl around the same time and we've started hanging out as friends but lately things have gotten more intimate between us. She definitely likes me, she told her friends to tell me. I like her, but not as much as the first girl, who I'd do anything for.
The first girl likes me but is so nervous about herself and relationships that she constantly disrupts the natural way things develop by saying stuff like ';I've never been this way before, I want to take things slow, I want to get to know you, I don't want to jump into anything, etc.';
Lately, the first girl has been waning on me and I've been enjoying time with the second girl more. I want to tell Girl A that I like her like none other and if she does to, to let things develop naturally instead of putting time frames and stepping back to ask if you are doing good enough! It's cute that she's shy about this stuff, but after a while it gets tedious, she acts like she wants me every day, but keeps stepping back because she's afraid of messing up.
I hope you guys get what I'm saying and can help me.
Would you take girl A or girl B? And what would you say to her in my situation? Thanks.Stuck dating two girls, need advice badly!?
Ok, here's what I think. I think Girl A is not mature enough to be in a relationship with you or anyone else. Relationships should be fun, natural, a great addition to your life-- not 'tedious.'
It's not like you can have a talk with her about this and she'll just change. She's not ready to work through some insecurities and let things develop naturally.
I'd break it off with her if I were you and continue to see this other girl as a friend and if something develops, it does. If it doesn't, it doesn't. But if you stay with Girl A, you're in for a long hard road.Stuck dating two girls, need advice badly!?
go for A, if u like her more then she has to be worth it, right? an if she's not then u don't really like her.
an just make sure u don't lead B on, cos thats just mean. maybe explain that theres someone u really like to her? an that it can't go beyond friends with u to.
have u kissed either of them?
Tell girl A that she needs to let go and if she keeps pulling back it will mess things up with you and her, It will probably get her to come around. Tell her like it is! Girl B just sounds like a person you can hang out with. You can always find someone to hang out with!
dude ,that,s part of playing the field personnaly , i would take A theres alot to take and teach and well you can benefite from it in the long run , if you know what i mean
Ahh, oh my god, you like Girl A more, obviously take her. And tell her those things you want to tell her. You said you'd do anything for her. So bear with her, be patient with her, be understanding. Until (unless) you stop feeling like it's worth the effort.
In my opinion you should take girl A, date the girl you like more, girl A will get over her shyness sooner or later, give it time. Don't date girl B because your Always going to like girl A more and its not fair for girl B.
now please answer mine:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
damn which girl is A and which girl is B? id hate to give u wrong advice.
turn this question on them but make it boy A and boy B and you can pretend to be boy C just so they dont catch on to ur trick then surprise them when u say ';april fool im AB and u win me';. manage au trois
Mate why not make life really interesting by adding a another women in the pot and if ya real good even a fourth one then you wouldn't really care what you said to women ';A'; or women ';B'; almost like an algebra problem but its real life and real people ya dealing with
Talk to girl A. Tell her how you feel and see how she responds if she doesn't come around either go for girl b or drop them both and move on.
this is kinda bad...... but i'd say go with the one who makes you most
happy, make a desision quick b4 they find out and u loose them both.
dont hurt them badly just break it off..... good luck.
Talk to girl A and tell her how you feel. And pending on how she takes it make your decision off that.
stop reposting your shitty question!
How old are you and how old are the two girls.
This would have some bearing on an answer.
date the girl that you truly have feelings for.
I'd say, just be happy with what you got!
If a girl has never been in a relationship before, it is a nerve racking thing to experience. Girl A will figure it out eventually. If not, just let her know how you feel about her behaviors so she does not do the same behaviors with every guy she becomes involved with. Help her figure out how to be in a relationship so it is fair to her and any other future boyfriends.
But do be careful, this is tricky, and if one girl figures out about the other, both could be repelled from you...
Good luck!
Dude, if you break up with girl A for girl B you're just going to mess her up even more. If you date girl B just because you got antsy and she finds out later- well, she's not going to be happy about being your second pick. Also, you may always have that ';what if'; question in the back of your head because you said it yourself, you liked irl A better.
Sometimes patients rewards.
Just be upfront to girl B. Tell her that you thought you had no chance with a girl you've been keeping an eye on for a while and tried to move on... but now the girl is giving you a chance and you want to stay in this relationship and yet you also want to go with the uncompleted relationship as well... but think that would be unfair for her (girl B) to stay around just because you like her when you like someone else as well. So you want to take your chances with girl A simply to fix the mess that was already made in the past. That way in the future if it doesn't work out you'll have no regrets about ';what if';.
Its clear that you like the 1st one so just tell her how you feel about her and say this too (or something like it):
I want to be closer to you but you keep pushing me away and its kind of making me feel like you dont feel the same way or dont plan on getting closer with me.. I wouldnt do anything to hurt you. What is it that you are the most affraid of?
Then try to work things out.. Im sure it will.. Good luck
I'd say go for girl A since you like her so much. Bein in a relationship takes work. When you guys grow together, your appreciation and love for each other will grow into an unbreakable bond. The more you and girl A talk to each other and get to know each other by spending time together, the more comfortable she will be around you. But she can't get your FULL attention if your out hanging with girl B (someone you don't really like as much)
There's one girl I really like alot. I've been seeing her for a month now. We're not officially in a relationship, though she says she's starting to like me. We've been dating a lot and getting to know each other, because as per her request, she's inexperienced and she wants to take it slow.
I met another girl around the same time and we've started hanging out as friends but lately things have gotten more intimate between us. She definitely likes me, she told her friends to tell me. I like her, but not as much as the first girl, who I'd do anything for.
The first girl likes me but is so nervous about herself and relationships that she constantly disrupts the natural way things develop by saying stuff like ';I've never been this way before, I want to take things slow, I want to get to know you, I don't want to jump into anything, etc.';
Lately, the first girl has been waning on me and I've been enjoying time with the second girl more. I want to tell Girl A that I like her like none other and if she does to, to let things develop naturally instead of putting time frames and stepping back to ask if you are doing good enough! It's cute that she's shy about this stuff, but after a while it gets tedious, she acts like she wants me every day, but keeps stepping back because she's afraid of messing up.
I hope you guys get what I'm saying and can help me.
Would you take girl A or girl B? And what would you say to her in my situation? Thanks.Stuck dating two girls, need advice badly!?
Ok, here's what I think. I think Girl A is not mature enough to be in a relationship with you or anyone else. Relationships should be fun, natural, a great addition to your life-- not 'tedious.'
It's not like you can have a talk with her about this and she'll just change. She's not ready to work through some insecurities and let things develop naturally.
I'd break it off with her if I were you and continue to see this other girl as a friend and if something develops, it does. If it doesn't, it doesn't. But if you stay with Girl A, you're in for a long hard road.Stuck dating two girls, need advice badly!?
go for A, if u like her more then she has to be worth it, right? an if she's not then u don't really like her.
an just make sure u don't lead B on, cos thats just mean. maybe explain that theres someone u really like to her? an that it can't go beyond friends with u to.
have u kissed either of them?
Tell girl A that she needs to let go and if she keeps pulling back it will mess things up with you and her, It will probably get her to come around. Tell her like it is! Girl B just sounds like a person you can hang out with. You can always find someone to hang out with!
dude ,that,s part of playing the field personnaly , i would take A theres alot to take and teach and well you can benefite from it in the long run , if you know what i mean
Ahh, oh my god, you like Girl A more, obviously take her. And tell her those things you want to tell her. You said you'd do anything for her. So bear with her, be patient with her, be understanding. Until (unless) you stop feeling like it's worth the effort.
In my opinion you should take girl A, date the girl you like more, girl A will get over her shyness sooner or later, give it time. Don't date girl B because your Always going to like girl A more and its not fair for girl B.
now please answer mine:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
damn which girl is A and which girl is B? id hate to give u wrong advice.
turn this question on them but make it boy A and boy B and you can pretend to be boy C just so they dont catch on to ur trick then surprise them when u say ';april fool im AB and u win me';. manage au trois
Mate why not make life really interesting by adding a another women in the pot and if ya real good even a fourth one then you wouldn't really care what you said to women ';A'; or women ';B'; almost like an algebra problem but its real life and real people ya dealing with
Talk to girl A. Tell her how you feel and see how she responds if she doesn't come around either go for girl b or drop them both and move on.
this is kinda bad...... but i'd say go with the one who makes you most
happy, make a desision quick b4 they find out and u loose them both.
dont hurt them badly just break it off..... good luck.
Talk to girl A and tell her how you feel. And pending on how she takes it make your decision off that.
stop reposting your shitty question!
How old are you and how old are the two girls.
This would have some bearing on an answer.
date the girl that you truly have feelings for.
I'd say, just be happy with what you got!
If a girl has never been in a relationship before, it is a nerve racking thing to experience. Girl A will figure it out eventually. If not, just let her know how you feel about her behaviors so she does not do the same behaviors with every guy she becomes involved with. Help her figure out how to be in a relationship so it is fair to her and any other future boyfriends.
But do be careful, this is tricky, and if one girl figures out about the other, both could be repelled from you...
Good luck!
Dude, if you break up with girl A for girl B you're just going to mess her up even more. If you date girl B just because you got antsy and she finds out later- well, she's not going to be happy about being your second pick. Also, you may always have that ';what if'; question in the back of your head because you said it yourself, you liked irl A better.
Sometimes patients rewards.
Just be upfront to girl B. Tell her that you thought you had no chance with a girl you've been keeping an eye on for a while and tried to move on... but now the girl is giving you a chance and you want to stay in this relationship and yet you also want to go with the uncompleted relationship as well... but think that would be unfair for her (girl B) to stay around just because you like her when you like someone else as well. So you want to take your chances with girl A simply to fix the mess that was already made in the past. That way in the future if it doesn't work out you'll have no regrets about ';what if';.
Its clear that you like the 1st one so just tell her how you feel about her and say this too (or something like it):
I want to be closer to you but you keep pushing me away and its kind of making me feel like you dont feel the same way or dont plan on getting closer with me.. I wouldnt do anything to hurt you. What is it that you are the most affraid of?
Then try to work things out.. Im sure it will.. Good luck
I'd say go for girl A since you like her so much. Bein in a relationship takes work. When you guys grow together, your appreciation and love for each other will grow into an unbreakable bond. The more you and girl A talk to each other and get to know each other by spending time together, the more comfortable she will be around you. But she can't get your FULL attention if your out hanging with girl B (someone you don't really like as much)
Help! Dating an unstable guy....advice please?
I've been dating this guy for almost two months, but I've known him for a year or so. He has issues - super bad depression, and sometimes he's very disturbing, ie talking about killing people or how much he hates everyone.
He's fallen desperately in love with me. He says that he'll never leave me, that I need to tell him everything, and that I'm the only person he has. He's threatened suicide because I was mad at him once, and he's ALWAYS butting into my life - conversations I'm having with friends, or on Myspace he comments on every single bulletin and status and things like that. He's even talking about us getting married one day, and we're not even 16 yet. I'm only 14, even. It's driving me crazy. He's always sort of putting down my accomplishments, too, so that he's the smart one in our relationship, which offends me to no end.
I told my mom all this, and she wants me out of this relationship, pronto. I'm not allowed to hang out with him anymore. And honestly, I don't want him anymore either....but how do I break up with him? He's really in love with me. I'm not feeling this at all but with how unstable he is, I don't know what he'll do. I plan on breaking up with him tomorrow, but I'm kind of nervous.Help! Dating an unstable guy....advice please?
dont go alone.get away from this guy.seriouslyHelp! Dating an unstable guy....advice please?
Seriously listen to your mother gtfo of that relationship..you want nothing to do with it. Your gonna have to be a big girl and just turn your back, its the best thing to do for both of you. I would tell his parents also, so that they are aware that he may need help.
Dont worry...
95% of the time people are too scared to commit suicide.
Just tell him that you want to be single right now and focus on yourslef and your school work. Someone like this can bring you down and thats not good. You dont need this.
good luck darlin
Make HIM fall out of love with YOU! ;O Then someone will make a movie out of it. But seriously, be a cow and a slobl around him and diss his friends.
This guy is very disturbed and your life is in danger after you tell him you are breaking up with him. You are right in being nervous, and your mother is right in telling you to get out of this relationship pronto. He is very unstable and has the capacity to kill you, himself and both of you at the same time. Do not correspond with him on Myspace or anywhere else. I suggest that you inform your counselor or the principal of the school, as he is capable of coming to school with a gun and killing you and himself. He is a danger to others and to himself, and the school needs to be informed. Perhaps someone will be able to get in touch with his parents and have someone look at what he has on his computer or in his room that may give a better indication as to what he will do if you were to leave him. He is very sick in the head and needs intervention before he kills someone or himself. Tell your mother of this and she will help you make a decision as to how this needs to be handled. This is a delicate situation, and it may be necessary to contact the police. The police will know how to best handle this situation, and if I were you and your mother, I would notify the police as soon as possible. I suggest you not break up with him tomorrow, and not do so until you are assured as to your safety. This is not something to brush aside, as he is very unstable and unpredictable. He may be suffering from the early signs of schizophrenia and be in need of treatment, and the sooner he gets treatment, the better the chances are that he won't kill someone or himself. Were he to kill himself after you break up with him, don't blame yourself for his death, as you have no control over what he does, but you do have control over what you do to protect your self from him. You have asked a very important question on Yahoo Answers, and I hope you will read what I have told you and will take action to protect yourself. He is very unstable and you are wise to end the relationship.
omg, tell him you care about him and everything however yu cant be everything to him, tell him its not healthy. tell him if he really cares about you he will get help. no one can be truly happy if they hate themselves. if he loves you he has to understand if he doesn't you have to tell him he's being selfish. good luck. also do it somewhere public incase he flips out. like a coffeeshop. also maybe consider having your mom talk to his parents.
He's fallen desperately in love with me. He says that he'll never leave me, that I need to tell him everything, and that I'm the only person he has. He's threatened suicide because I was mad at him once, and he's ALWAYS butting into my life - conversations I'm having with friends, or on Myspace he comments on every single bulletin and status and things like that. He's even talking about us getting married one day, and we're not even 16 yet. I'm only 14, even. It's driving me crazy. He's always sort of putting down my accomplishments, too, so that he's the smart one in our relationship, which offends me to no end.
I told my mom all this, and she wants me out of this relationship, pronto. I'm not allowed to hang out with him anymore. And honestly, I don't want him anymore either....but how do I break up with him? He's really in love with me. I'm not feeling this at all but with how unstable he is, I don't know what he'll do. I plan on breaking up with him tomorrow, but I'm kind of nervous.Help! Dating an unstable guy....advice please?
dont go alone.get away from this guy.seriouslyHelp! Dating an unstable guy....advice please?
Seriously listen to your mother gtfo of that relationship..you want nothing to do with it. Your gonna have to be a big girl and just turn your back, its the best thing to do for both of you. I would tell his parents also, so that they are aware that he may need help.
Dont worry...
95% of the time people are too scared to commit suicide.
Just tell him that you want to be single right now and focus on yourslef and your school work. Someone like this can bring you down and thats not good. You dont need this.
good luck darlin
Make HIM fall out of love with YOU! ;O Then someone will make a movie out of it. But seriously, be a cow and a slobl around him and diss his friends.
This guy is very disturbed and your life is in danger after you tell him you are breaking up with him. You are right in being nervous, and your mother is right in telling you to get out of this relationship pronto. He is very unstable and has the capacity to kill you, himself and both of you at the same time. Do not correspond with him on Myspace or anywhere else. I suggest that you inform your counselor or the principal of the school, as he is capable of coming to school with a gun and killing you and himself. He is a danger to others and to himself, and the school needs to be informed. Perhaps someone will be able to get in touch with his parents and have someone look at what he has on his computer or in his room that may give a better indication as to what he will do if you were to leave him. He is very sick in the head and needs intervention before he kills someone or himself. Tell your mother of this and she will help you make a decision as to how this needs to be handled. This is a delicate situation, and it may be necessary to contact the police. The police will know how to best handle this situation, and if I were you and your mother, I would notify the police as soon as possible. I suggest you not break up with him tomorrow, and not do so until you are assured as to your safety. This is not something to brush aside, as he is very unstable and unpredictable. He may be suffering from the early signs of schizophrenia and be in need of treatment, and the sooner he gets treatment, the better the chances are that he won't kill someone or himself. Were he to kill himself after you break up with him, don't blame yourself for his death, as you have no control over what he does, but you do have control over what you do to protect your self from him. You have asked a very important question on Yahoo Answers, and I hope you will read what I have told you and will take action to protect yourself. He is very unstable and you are wise to end the relationship.
omg, tell him you care about him and everything however yu cant be everything to him, tell him its not healthy. tell him if he really cares about you he will get help. no one can be truly happy if they hate themselves. if he loves you he has to understand if he doesn't you have to tell him he's being selfish. good luck. also do it somewhere public incase he flips out. like a coffeeshop. also maybe consider having your mom talk to his parents.
ANY DATING COACH OR ANYONE ADVICE PLEASE?
Lord I could not even ask advice to a friend.
my boyfriend and meet a month a few weeks now. I from the island and it is a bit different when carribean date.Usually we wait longer to see if the man he serious. I can said that it his the first time in my life that my family know about someone that i m going out with etc... ok we meet and click went out ok, had sex make love and start going out.
1-he works 3 jobs go to school and live with his brother. so only way to be together is to go to a hotel. we see each other 1 or twice a week for a few hours.and talk always in the phone he calls me every minutes.and travel for distances to come see me or pick me up from work.and try to make sure i'm satisfied.My biggest problem is his attitude when i talk and he says i don't care constantly or when i ask him for his opinion and he does like i should only decide.we so far went 3 familly parties and to dinner 1 time. everytime we order food we eat in his car.
Also we went a hotel twice now he only want to have sex in the car and i hate that, i told my condition about my back and knees after a accident,can get worst like that.he said what other solution we have and tells me that he will fix it when he get his own apart. but now I found myself more than once in that position that.so much i decide that if he come to see me next time i will not have sex at all with him.because what if the police come.
I hate when he tells that sex his the only thing in life ,he notice that a few to me I start worried and told him no he told me waht else than. He, yersterday told me that he need to have sex everyday i was like what.(we have sex only 1 or 2 time a week). i worried more and tried to talk to him when he told me that make him feel that he love his woman better.He will constantly tell me how he would like to have sex with me sometime i feel like bad not love for affection or touch. or sofht love making
I let him be itself so i can discover stuff about him. He curse to much sometimes when he talk and i a lot made the remark.he told me that he became like that for certain reason.
when i try to show him why i'm mad or explain someting that i know will upset him just to get a better communication he keep telling me my bad habit and that i get on his nerve.
for valentine I never had nothing from no one before and hope that it will be a nice day soon. Like he will be romantic and go to a dinner and dance with me. he decide already two weeks before we said we will go to a hotel to have sex and keep telling me during this week i can't wait to be paw paw with you.Also he don't want to use condonm and don't want to go get tested wiht me. to tell the truht, i'm hurt.Only a few good souvenir make me smile.
We mad today , i do love him but if that continued my health and person are more important. we are both in our 20's. i'm tired to ear of his big past story how he got girls and him be so proud of it and if i will tell him a story he say ok ok enough.can any dating coach or anyone tell me how to fix this mess.I fell like respect his the mean point there and sexual health.PLEASE ADVICE HOW TO MAKE HIM KNOW THAT HE'S WRONG.
I'm crying while wrinting this can not even review mistakes sorry for the english.ANY DATING COACH OR ANYONE ADVICE PLEASE?
Don't worry about telling him he's wrong because he could care less.
Seriously, cut your losses and toss this dude out like a parking ticket! You want someone who's going to respect your wishes and physical limits and understands that sex isn't everything. It's important, but it's not everything.
You'll have to be tough, but you don't need to be crying and upset over a manchild.
Take careANY DATING COACH OR ANYONE ADVICE PLEASE?
You need a better man than that, he's bad news
You maybe need to separate for a while then get back together. If he doesn't change well i guess hooking up with someone else is better
being a guy working 3 jobs is mind craming, the sex relaxs hims i bet, w/o a condom is bad news, you should both get tested if your unsure, i think clinics do that for free nowa days, as long as you feel he's really working 3 jobs , then i would say help the man thru it...bj here and there, make sure your not wasting your time.
Just don't give in to his requests, he treating you as a sex object %26amp; he using his past to ';force'; you in giving in to him.
He not respecting you at all, I bet he love himself more then you too.
my boyfriend and meet a month a few weeks now. I from the island and it is a bit different when carribean date.Usually we wait longer to see if the man he serious. I can said that it his the first time in my life that my family know about someone that i m going out with etc... ok we meet and click went out ok, had sex make love and start going out.
1-he works 3 jobs go to school and live with his brother. so only way to be together is to go to a hotel. we see each other 1 or twice a week for a few hours.and talk always in the phone he calls me every minutes.and travel for distances to come see me or pick me up from work.and try to make sure i'm satisfied.My biggest problem is his attitude when i talk and he says i don't care constantly or when i ask him for his opinion and he does like i should only decide.we so far went 3 familly parties and to dinner 1 time. everytime we order food we eat in his car.
Also we went a hotel twice now he only want to have sex in the car and i hate that, i told my condition about my back and knees after a accident,can get worst like that.he said what other solution we have and tells me that he will fix it when he get his own apart. but now I found myself more than once in that position that.so much i decide that if he come to see me next time i will not have sex at all with him.because what if the police come.
I hate when he tells that sex his the only thing in life ,he notice that a few to me I start worried and told him no he told me waht else than. He, yersterday told me that he need to have sex everyday i was like what.(we have sex only 1 or 2 time a week). i worried more and tried to talk to him when he told me that make him feel that he love his woman better.He will constantly tell me how he would like to have sex with me sometime i feel like bad not love for affection or touch. or sofht love making
I let him be itself so i can discover stuff about him. He curse to much sometimes when he talk and i a lot made the remark.he told me that he became like that for certain reason.
when i try to show him why i'm mad or explain someting that i know will upset him just to get a better communication he keep telling me my bad habit and that i get on his nerve.
for valentine I never had nothing from no one before and hope that it will be a nice day soon. Like he will be romantic and go to a dinner and dance with me. he decide already two weeks before we said we will go to a hotel to have sex and keep telling me during this week i can't wait to be paw paw with you.Also he don't want to use condonm and don't want to go get tested wiht me. to tell the truht, i'm hurt.Only a few good souvenir make me smile.
We mad today , i do love him but if that continued my health and person are more important. we are both in our 20's. i'm tired to ear of his big past story how he got girls and him be so proud of it and if i will tell him a story he say ok ok enough.can any dating coach or anyone tell me how to fix this mess.I fell like respect his the mean point there and sexual health.PLEASE ADVICE HOW TO MAKE HIM KNOW THAT HE'S WRONG.
I'm crying while wrinting this can not even review mistakes sorry for the english.ANY DATING COACH OR ANYONE ADVICE PLEASE?
Don't worry about telling him he's wrong because he could care less.
Seriously, cut your losses and toss this dude out like a parking ticket! You want someone who's going to respect your wishes and physical limits and understands that sex isn't everything. It's important, but it's not everything.
You'll have to be tough, but you don't need to be crying and upset over a manchild.
Take careANY DATING COACH OR ANYONE ADVICE PLEASE?
You need a better man than that, he's bad news
You maybe need to separate for a while then get back together. If he doesn't change well i guess hooking up with someone else is better
being a guy working 3 jobs is mind craming, the sex relaxs hims i bet, w/o a condom is bad news, you should both get tested if your unsure, i think clinics do that for free nowa days, as long as you feel he's really working 3 jobs , then i would say help the man thru it...bj here and there, make sure your not wasting your time.
Just don't give in to his requests, he treating you as a sex object %26amp; he using his past to ';force'; you in giving in to him.
He not respecting you at all, I bet he love himself more then you too.
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