About 9 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We were together for a year and a half and, as far as I knew, had a near perfect relationship. Out of nowhere she just broke up with me one day and left. Needless to say, it was an extreme system shock.
Before I met her I had never had any luck when it came to dating. Never a yes to a date or anything.
Since the break up I've tried my luck with some other women, but none of them were interested either.
Now I have met a girl who may actually be interested in me. She hasn't said anything directly, but my mate's girlfriend is her best friend. She says that the girl is interested alright. We haven't gone out yet, but are going to next weekend.
So basically, does anyone have any advice for this? The only experience I've ever had with dating has been with the one girl.Any advice for returning to the dating scene?
Ask her out on a date and take it from there...Best advice someone can give is learn by Trial and error....Learn from mistakes.....Remember what went wrong in you previous relationship/s and make sure it doesn't happen again...Any advice for returning to the dating scene?
If you already know that she has interest you are well on your way.. when you do go out, make sure you are complimentary but not fake, ask probative questions, but don't be overly sexual or creepy. Be who you usually are and she will do the same...
It seems harder than it is, but first dates can be alot of fun.
wow
Yeah, sooner the better!!!
Talk to who every excites you-- watch the eyes!
just be yourself.. take it easy.. dont be so anxious.. enjoy!
just be casual and of course be yourself and everything would be okay..
be clean , take a shower , brush teeth , hair, put on a light scented cologne , not the cheap kind and dont talk and say stupid things .
Dude just go with the flow , be yourself and if it's meant to be then so be it . Just don't push the issue's and time will tell !!
just be yourself and calm.
Have you tried going on internet dating sites, like match.com or lavalife? Remember that dating is just getting to know someone, and allowing them to get a chance to know you. At best, you'll find out you have a connection that can turn into a great friendship or a relationship. At worst, you have another experience under your belt to de-mystify dating and build your confidence.
Go on as many dates as you can with as many women as possible, so that no ONE date is invested with all the weight of an arranged marriage. Its also good to meet a wide range of women, because it sounds like you have a fixed idea of what you're looking for (your ex that you thought you had a near perfect relationship with) and the truth of the matter is, you may not even be able to picture who's right for you until you see whats out there. Keep an open mind...good luck!
Have a look at http://www.yourromanceguide.com
They have articles on dating, break ups
just be your self and relax youll get back into it soon enough.
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