I would just explain to him, there is nothing more helpful than the truth but i did that once to a guy that i was dating for a while and then i found out he was going to ask me out so i approached him and told him i was not ready and he freaked out and called me names and got drunk and insulted me in front of all my friends. BUT a couple weeks later he realized that he was being a jerk and we ended up going out, then he cheated on me with my best friend haha . Not in this problem but what i am trying to say is that if he is a good guy he will understand it just takes longer for men to process things through their brains . You won't lose him, just explain that you like him alot, if you do...and just say i really like you i don't want to lose you but i am looking to take this slower and getting to know you more before putting a more serious title on our relationship.
Please understand and i don't want to go backwards, i want to move forward but i am not ready to be called your girlfriend yet. I like to keep things private in the beginning .
Simple and he will understand, if he doesn't appreciate your honesty and doesn't like what you will say then he is just feeling insecure about the fact that you want to take it slower. Men like to rush into things way too quickly.
Take your time and just be honest ! it's the key ingredient in a relationship =)Advice about a guy I'm dating?
maybe he just means you are his girl......friend, I understand what you are saying, you are ';seeing'; him and going out on dates but not going steady yet. Just tell him that you aren't ready for an exclusive relationship yet but you really like him and want to continue seeing each other. Make sure he understands though that he is also free to see other people.
These youngsters don't understand how ';dating'; people works so this is just for them:
You can be ';dating'; more than one person at a time, you shouldn't be sleeping with them though. You are basically just friends with all of these guys but you go out and do things with them. When you find one you REALLY like, then you stop seeing the others and you see that one exclusively.........then he becomes your ';boyfriend';
I hope they understand this
If not then they can ask their moms to explain.
I would just tell him, that you really enjoy dating him, but you're not sure if you're ready to take it to the boyfriend/girlfriend level.
Another thing you need to mutually decide is if you both are able to date other people, because if you're not, then you're already boyfriend/girlfriend.
well i kinda think ur leading him on because if your always talking and hanging out what is he suppose to think. wouldnt you think the same thing. and when u dont say no im not your girlfriend he will just think its even more official:)
but i think you shuold tell him to slow down and maybe hes taking things to fast and you want to be friends for now. and if he really is a sweet guy he'll understand
Just be straight forward with him.
Tell him like what you told Yahoo Answers.
If he is reasonable, he should understand.
If you lose him on this ground, he is not worth it anyway.
Good luck.
If you love him just follow the desire of your heart but you have to set some limitation
if you're dating him, then obviously you two are bf and gf, i'd think lol
or not really dating? more info
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tell him you just want to take things slow and go from there
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go 2 him speak ur heart out %26amp; tell that it's not d right time. maybe later.
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