i look for specific things in men, so when i ACTUALLY find a guy i like and he seems interested, i try to force the situation instead of just letting things happen. when i SHOULD be forming a friendship and getting to know the guy better, instead im already focused on winning him over. i have a date comming up and i think the guy is pretty cool....therefore instead of trying to just have a good time with him, i'll probably be analyzing him and deciding how i should behave in accordence to what i think he likes. i KNOW this i a horrible way to go about things, but i can't help it...it's my gut reaction. what can i do to overcome this behavior?Advice on breaking bad dating habbits?
Just do it, whenever you're gonna say something you think he will like just say what you really feel, thats the only way to break the habit and impress a guy.Advice on breaking bad dating habbits?
Call me.
But I have done this too. It's just that we are learning how to act with people (date). Yeah, just show your real side? You think he wont like it? Because if that you have self esteem problems. Just be yourself. They either like you for who are or they don't. Now, if you are like water, clay, and you con conform into anyone and you are going to be happy, then find someone who you really fit with. You are kinda saying that if you like him even if he is a ****** then you still do whatever to keep him. No? Just be yourself!
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