I am having trouble dating girls-please help. Advice needed please on this?

I am unusual in the respect that I don't like dressing up on any occasions, and prefer to just dress casually in me old jacket, baggy pants and my favourite green ';wellies';. When I have gone out on blind dates the girls I met objected. Is it unreasonable to expect the girl to accept me for how I am? Do you think I should change? Some people have said I need to make more of an effort and perhaps buy new ';Wellington's'; at least. What advice can you give me because I really could do with a lady friend who likes a chap with a rustic style? Am I expecting too much do you think?I am having trouble dating girls-please help. Advice needed please on this?
If your style isnt working for you, change.


Changing isn't bad people may not like you for who you are and that dosen't mean they are wrong either. People always say the stereotypical thing in this situation 'be yourself'


its not bad to change, the reward is better then the risk, just try something new..I am having trouble dating girls-please help. Advice needed please on this?
you should only change for yourself, not for attracting some silly girl, unless YOU want to be different.





regardless, you will find a gal that likes you for you. anything less is unacceptable.
Dude you have to make her happy. If ur goin on a blind date the first time you should dress nice and make her fall for you. Then from there dress less and less casual and you should have no problem.





Good Luck!
well, as a girl myself, i can say i like to know guys at least try and give the effort. plus, im sure if she was special to you, you wouldn't mind dressing up for her at LEAST once (;
DON`T change you should be who you are, someday you will find someone who loves you for who you are xoxo
Just be yourself. Give her flowers. Tell her she's beautiful [if she is of course. DON'T LIE TO HER GIRLS HATE THAT.] and things should go great if she's that someone just for you.
i don't think you should change. i wouldn't care if a guy wore all his old clothes on a date.
just be yourself....
I don't think changing your clothing appearance for a date is necessarily changing 'who you are'. If you are going out to a restaurant or some place nice, she may expect you to dress up a little.





Us females love to lounge in sweats and jeans, etc. But we know when to dress up and look presentable and when it's okay not to.





If these girls you are dating are not 'blind dates'.. Then I think they should know your style and how you are. But maybe just expect you to look a bit more descent when out on a date? If they are blind dates, then I would still dress more presentable for the first date and then depending on when you go to a movie, etc.. You can dress down.





I wouldn't always wear the SAME thing all the time though. You might need to switch it up some and if you're not comfortable doing that, perhaps wait until you find a girl who will accept it? Maybe one just like you!





Good luck