Ok, here's the situation. A few days ago a someone I knew semi well came up to me and told me they liked me. Now usually this would be fine, I'd have no problem. The only thing that made this situation a little more awkward was the fact that it was a guy. Now don't get me wrong, I have no problem with homosexuality. My problem is whether or not to say back to him ';I like you too';. I know I could just say yes and give it a shot, experiment in life, but I don't really want to hurt him if I'm not bi. In my mind, I think I want to say yes to him, but something won't let me. Something in my mind keeps telling me not to say anything and wait. I'm not sure on what to do. If someone could give me some advice to my current situation, I would be most thankful.I need a little advice about my current dating situation . . .?
that ';something'; in your mind is social expectation. embrace the stigma and go for it, i say. just make it clear to him that you're still unsure about your sexuality, so as to not hurt him in the end if you decide you'd prefer suiting up for the hetero team.I need a little advice about my current dating situation . . .?
Well, kudos to you for being openminded enough not to find it offensive or to be threatened by it. That's more than a lot of men can do.
I'm trying to put myself in this person's shoes, and I think that if you started anything with this person he might wonder whether you are really gay (or bi) and in the closet.
One thing you might do is make it very clear from the outset what your feelings are (that you might not be gay or bi), and make it his decision whether he wants to give it a shot.
If you want to--go for it. I doubt that you're going to break his heart after one night. If you wait nothing will happen. Your choice.
Go for it mate! You only live once so live everyday as if it was your last! Who knows, maybe you will have a blast with him on your night out and may discover new things about you that you did not know! Just go with the flow....Take care and be safe!
everybody is so hung up on love...lust... perversion... That you even have to think about it should be a good sign that you should say no. Is this the only subject you consume yourself with or do you consider morals... What if we had no sexual organs would there still be homosexuality?
Well, when starting any new relationship, it's best to be upfront and honest with the other person(s). Let him know that you are still questioning your sexuality and you are not completely sure if you are bi or not. Make it clear to him that you want to take things slow and see where you stand on the issue; if he respects/loves you enough (which I believe he does by the tone of your question) he'll be patient. If after a few weeks or months you still feel uncomfortable about dating him, sit him down and let him know how you feel. Basically, be honest with him from the beginning and make sure you keep him informed of how you're feeling throughout the relationship. Trust your instincts and him and you won't be led astray. Good luck!
Tell him that your not gay or bi if your not.Because if you say yes he may think that you are great and you might not and that could break his heart.But if you are gay or bi then follow YOUR heart.I hope i helped.
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