Dating women with children....advice!?

In the past I have dated women with children, and I almost married one of them. Although I love them dearly, I can't do kids. I have 4 nephews, and 1 niece, and I rarely see them, and whenever I do they always want to spend the night etc... But even then I find it difficult. As a single man i'm always on the go and really don't know how to include children on my ';TO DO LIST';. I have met some wonderful women throughout the years, but the fact that they had kids, I just stear clear of them. I know that single women with a family shouldn't be discriminated against. And many times you find out that they were in crazy relationships with the children's fathers, and I am not one for a whole lot of drama, and confusionDating women with children....advice!?
Dating women with children has a lot of benefits. They usually don't want more. You can go out to dinners, and parks and be one happy family. You can enjoy all the fun things of family life without the headaches. Then you can go home to peace and quiet again. It really works out great.Dating women with children....advice!?
So what's the problem? You clearly state you're not into women with kids but it sounds like you're seeking advice from your question. If you're not into them, then don't do it. A mother will always choose her child if push comes to shove. Maybe you need to look at psychologically what attracts you to the ';mother'; type - in the meantime, make yourself only available to date single women - there are plenty of them out there.





Good luck.
Some of the best women in the world have kids. It is a package deal. Don't miss out on a good woman because she has kids. Set boundaries and put your foot down as to what she can and cannot do to stop the drama.
why should u take care of HER kids? she is the mother, she takes care of them. i have 3 children, my second husband barely sees them and talks to them. i feed them, take care of them, check their home work, discipline them. but on the other hand if i were a man i would never date a woman with kids. someone else's children are such a nuisance anyway. and besides, my new husband is providing for all the family. so having 3 kids is a very big waste of money, especially if they re not yours. so i suggest maybe u re right - stay clear of women with kids.
big no no.. no no no to much issues
then these women arent the ones for you. when you find her you might not mind she has kids..
If you want to be with HER then you have to factor in the children. There is no way out.
you should steer clear of women with children, and women that like children. or you could work on your attitude toward children and try to find out why you don't like them. if you love the woman, you'll have to love her kids, or it's over. and if you love the kids, there will be no problem putting them on your to do list, they'll go above almost everything else.


but as for getting everything done, don't worry. all it takes is getting into a routine, and things usually go smoothly.