For all of you who are dating out there, serious advice needed! I need your opinions and thoughts?

Ok so I know how all the dating stuff goes and I know that its just dating therefore you should keep your options open right? Anyway, if you are dating someone right now and you were to find out that they are dating someone else besides you and they didnt tell you, how would react? If thats the only person that you are dating at the moment would you start dating other people once you realized that you're not exclusivey dating each other. I've been dating this guy the last couple of weeks and I really do like him but I think he may be dating someone else but he hasnt told me anything, little stuff have made me think that he is also seeing someone else. I know I dont have any rights to be mad or say anything I just dont know how to react to this? I dont want him thinking that I am some jealous chick or something, at the same time it hurts and I wish I can say something without sounding dumb. Once we were having a conversation and he told me that if he were to date someone else he wouldnt tell me. I know if I were to be dating someone else I would tell them. Thoughts and opinions? I need advice! Idk what to do.For all of you who are dating out there, serious advice needed! I need your opinions and thoughts?
Well it seems that his uncertainty about his situation if he is dating with someone or not makes you mad. As a man who knows the thinking style of men I definitely advise you not to tell anything about your fear. Be cool! Act like him; even if you aren't dating with anybody give him the impression as if you are dating with someone. This will make him mad and will feel the same things that you are feeling.





If you don't want to have a broken heart you must be strong and your self confidence must be very high. The person who is dating with you must feel your power and courage. And never show too much interest to men because too much interest will let them think they are the king of the world and they could try to increase the population of their kingdom.For all of you who are dating out there, serious advice needed! I need your opinions and thoughts?
so your relationship is starting dishonestly? futures looking up then.


hellooooo? you dont have RIGHTS? ok you dont have the right to control who he's seeing however you do have the right to know the truth and what youre letting yourself in for.





he's not the greatest guy lets face it, get out before you get too deep, hes already admitted he wouldnt be honest, he sounds like a cheater for the future.
Just come out and ask him nicely, Have you met any one new that I would want to know about? Tell him that you Value your close relationship with him,but you are not the kind who would be willing to share. If it comes down to it you could not bear seeing him with any one else and you would have to move on.
if he is dating someone else, it pretty much gives you the right to, so maybe you guys should be open about it and just be like.... ummmm... booty calls I guess... or something like that. IDK. but yeah, just confront him about it or maybe you should just tell him that you are dating someone else even though you're not to see how he reacts (although i don't condone lying).
I think ''dating'' is just an excuse for people to play games.


It's like, your kinda in a relationship, but kinda not, wth?





It's dumb.








Get rid of him, he's in no wayy ready for any commitment. Let him date around and catch a million diseases, then wish he'd be able to get you back.
woahh hold up, the whole point of dating someone is that he is yours, and you are his. You only have each other and no one else or else that is cheating and is just wrong. If its really bothering you tell him how you feel, or else you will eat your insides alive...
just be honest with him if you can't communicate when your dating it wont be any better when your exclusive remember honesty is the best policy
most people do date others if the person they have been


dating before is not official. so most people would not


say anything
Well first off, it is normal for you to be bothered if you really like him and he's dating someone else. However, he's not doing anything wrong because you guys have made no commitment to be exclusive. Neither one of you have an obligation to tell each other if and who else you may or may not be dating.





You must be honest and ask yourself if you want a BF right now or just want to date casually. If you want this guy to be your BF, wait for him to make the first move and ask you to be exclusive. If he doesn't, stop dating him, move on and see what he does. If he comes back to you and says he wants something serious, give a relationship a try if that's what you want. If he doesn't come after you, he's obviously not interested in getting serious, so it was never meant ot be.
RED FLAG.


If he flat out told you that he would keep something from you, that means he has no problem keeping other things from you too.





Technically, no you don't have a right to be mad about it. But neither does he. So don't go on the hunt, but if someone else asks you out, go for it.





RED FLAG #2


If you're already worrying about whether he's being dishonest or whether he's trustworthy or not, and its only been a few weeks... move on while you still can.





However, if you really like him, talk to him about it first. Don't be accusatory, but lay down some boundaries. Let him know you're alright with it not being exclusive at the moment. Or, if you're not alright with that, then tell him. How he reacts now, when y'all don't have a strong bond, will determine how he'll react when you guys have developed a realationship.
You have the right to be happy and it sounds like right now you are not. I would be completely honest with this guy and sit down and talk to him. Tell him you are only dating him and would like it to be more serious. In order to get what you want out of life you need to express what you want. No one likes game playing. Just reading your post this guy sounds like a tool to me but go with your gut. If you think he's seeing other people - forget him. You are worth more!
Well, if I were dating, (I will just take this from my past here) I would not really get upset if the person I was dating was dating others if we did not agree first on being exclusive.





When a couple decides to be exclusive with each other, it's a mutual agreement. It should be discussed up front and agreed upon before you can consider yourself in a relationship with that person. Assuming it is not the way to think. To do that you would just be setting yourself up for some unnecessary hurt.





My s/o and I are exclusive because we discussed and agreed on it. We both wear rings to express our commitment to each other. If it would have been ';just dating'; we both would have agreed to that up front.





You do have the right to feel a little put off buy this. Maybe perhaps he gave you the implied impression that you were to be exclusive. Just be honest with him. Don't be angry, or sarcastic, but talk about it in an open and honest way. just state you want to make sure you have your facts straight so you don't assume anything. When he tells you if he does or does not want to be in a committed relationship with you, then that is up to you, to make up your mind as to whether or not you feel you want this kind of relationship. Listen to your heart and your mind. Know what fits right for you. Yeah, it' might hurt in the worst case, but at least you know more now than you did before.





Best of luck to you. I hope it all works out for the best.