Ive been dating this girl for a little while now, weve been out four times already. Since date one, shes been trying to seduce me. I on the other hand, just want to take things slow and get to know her. I dont see her a ';gf'; material for now. Im not that type that just can sleep around with anyone. The furthest ive gone with her is Third base, and thats it for me at this point. Last weekend was a different story, after clubbing I invited her over to my place to get something to eat. I made it perfectly clear that is all my intention, she said ok. At my place she begins to seduce me, and i ended up in bed with her. We were going through the ropes of making love, I decided it was too fast, and I stopped and told her that I should take her home. Do you think i pissed her off? what should I do now? she has called me, to ask ';how I was doing';, through my voicemail? I didnt return her call. So its been 4 days since I last talked to her. Is it going to be weird from now on?HELP! Real good advice needed from the Dating Gurus!!?
WOW..You are like the first guy in the past decade I know that still believe in what you believe in. This is great. Why don't you just dump the girl and come hang out with me. :)HELP! Real good advice needed from the Dating Gurus!!?
you gave to girl a complex, you need to talk to her and let her know that it wasn't her it was you who wanted to stop.
no!! just *** down...ok.you should right here a poem but not just any poem write her a poem about intimacy(MAKING LOVE)make love too her mind and then see how she responses
Well it really depends on if your rounded third base or not. Did you lead off of third base while the pitcher was pitching to the next batter? You need to either stop being a little puss and give it to her or let her find someone who will.
well it sounds liek your making it wierd. if shes contacting yout hen shes probably ok with everything. just make it known that your not ready to get physical with her. girls tend to understand because they usually wants stability. but also... why are you dating her if you feel liek shes NOT gf material?? think about that before you call her back
if she really likes you, she'll respect your decision and wait for the right time. tell her how you feel and she what she says. if she leaves, she's not worth your time
1. How do we know if you pissed her off? If you were THERE and didn't know, what makes you think WE would know?
2. Answer her damned phonecall unless you don't want to see her again. Explain your position, and see how she feels about it. You know, pretend you're an actual adult. It's fun.
3. If it's going to be weird from now on, it's because you're behaving like an adolescent.
You need to talk to her and reiterate that if she wants a relationship with you that she needs to respect your point of view on sleeping with someone. If she can't do that then you should move on. It says she doesn't repect you.
Your fine...Just talk to her again. If she wants it but you dont then shes not the right girl for you. Just tell her that...But you gotta call her again.
Sounds like you are not into her. If your not just break it off now.
In the future if you want to take it slow stick to that and you won't have this problem. If you still want to see her then explain to her that you would like to start over. But be very clear to her about how you feel about sex.
its only going to get weirder the longer you wait.
call her and tell her how you really feel.
if she is any women at all she should respect what you have to say.
I respect guys so much more when they like to take it slow.
hope this helps
well maybe u should consider not going out with her bc clearly she doesnt want the same things as u form a relationship --- u need to talk to her
Anytime you don't call a girl for four days, she wonders. And any time that you turn a girl down for sex, she panics. So doing them both means you have some serious grovelling to do. She needs to understand how big a deal intimacy is to you, then if she doesn't respect that: move on. If she does, than you can try again and find out how you feel about her from there. First off though, apologize profusely for not getting into contact with her and tell her how horribly sorry you were for just disappearing after that night.
Do you think i pissed her off?
I dunno, maybe the incidnt just humiliated her. Stick to your guns, though, don't sleep with someone just because they want it. Wait until you want it.
what should I do now?
Well, if you don't see her as GF material, you should call her back once and tell her that. Then leave her alone for a while. Why did you keep going out with her and go to 3rd base with her if you didn't see her as GF material? It could have led her on.
Is it going to be weird from now on?
Ya, most likely.
Wow!!! That's really cool....dump her and find someone else that has just as much respect for you as you would for her.....Stick to your guns!!! She's obviously a slut!!
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