He loves to joke around and he loves video games. He works at a smoothy shop and if pretty dependable. He thinks no girl will want some one that is hairy. I think that is untrue. Please help. I just dont know how to help him.What kind of advice can I give my 24 old bro. who has never dated yet wants to? He wants a decent girl!!!!!!!?
When I was that age and very lonely, I went on Match.com and actually posted nice photos of myself and started e-mailing different guys in my area. I got asked out by a few, and examples of dates we went on were:
1. a local art show
2. mini-golf and a movie
3. karaoke night at the local casino
My advice is to always meet in a public place and don't give out information regarding where you live. Then you never have to see them again, if you don't want to. Don't give out your phone number unless you've written them a lot of emails and feel that you know enough about them to be interested in talking to them more. Your brother will be able to sift through literally thousands of people and find ones he likes. Then he can send them a wink (a neat feature that requires no first questions but lets girls know he thinks they're interesting) and then email them and get to know them a little. Then he can work on getting his nerve up enough to ask one out. If she doesn't want to go out again, there will still be others who are still emailing him and who knows? He might find the perfect one.
You can search for certain ages, religions, hobbies, whatever!
I'm only recommending it because I was a shy person, and I met my husband on Match.com. We had one date and I knew I wanted to stay with him the rest of my life. We were married a year later, and have a wonderful life now!
Try to get your brother to be off-hand about asking someone out. It's just an experiment thing, and it can be a girl he doesn't really think will fit the bill...he just needs to go with her, then go with someone else...get used to it. Good luck!What kind of advice can I give my 24 old bro. who has never dated yet wants to? He wants a decent girl!!!!!!!?
Leave him alone. He will date when he is ready. There are plenty of chicks that like hairy guys. There is a chick out there for everyone. He would have better luck if he got a decent job. No chick likes a dude working at a smoothy shop. Hairy or not.
He has confidence issues and needs to have his ego blown up a little, then go and hit on girls he likes.
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