I really want to win the heart of a woman that I've had my eye on for years. and really don't know what to say to break the ice, and get her to warm up to me. She is a special one, and I refuse to resort to some stupid pick up line. Please helpI need Advice From the Ladies ....Dating Delima!?
Don't tell her that you've admired her for years, or she'll think you're a stalker and that she can have you wrapped around her little finger. Be nice and ask her if she'd like to go for a coffee sometime.I need Advice From the Ladies ....Dating Delima!?
There is an old fashion thing called flirting. Look at her supprised and say. Wow your looking good! Ask her what she's been up to? Let her answer. If she says something positive that she is proud of say ! You should be proud of yourself what a acomplishment, If it is negitive, say thats not like you at all I find that hard to beleive? Being the way you are I can see you bouncing right back.
Then be brave, women love it! and say
we should get together sometime soon and maybe I can put a
new spin on things. You know You have been on my mind from time to time and I'v been wondering what you have been up to.
Now you are telling her your intrested in her, and that should peek her intrest and think about hey he thinks I'm special. Now I'm not sure how she feels about you but you will find out now!
Don't stop now ask if she is hungry , Im starving, would you like to go for a bite to eat. Now she is thinking hum, he's not cheap, and maybe he will flater me more, god knows thats hard to refuse. When u get there try not to tell her everything about yourself, its about her right now.
Do reveal something funny to keep her attention. Act like that care free guy just going for lunch.
When lunch is over act supprised again and tell her you had a fun time. Let her respond, and say in a couple of days your are going to (somewhere )( ask if she would like to go with? If its a go you know your making headway if not, don't push say whell t was nice to see you again, maybe we will run into each other again.
Here is my number give me a call if your up to getting out again, I really had a fun time. That is as much as you can do, see if she calls give it a couple of weeks if not get on with someone else worthy of u. Plenty of fish in the sea, you just got to approach women/girls they expect it because they think you as the man should be somewhat agressive, after all you are the man that they believe should make the first move.
Things haven't changed that much. Good luck and be a Gentleman, and don't forget if you have the chance get that kiss goodnight, but let it be gentle like she is special, do not be forceful of quick, no french kissing leave that for the passion to follow.
Boy I think, I 'm giving away to much info, But you want her to know she can trust you and not scared of you like you just want passion right away. Ok enough amunition Good Luck, Take Care Maryanne
Keep it real!
just tell her how much u love her
well if you really like her then tell her how you feel, besides those stupid pick up lines never work on us. express to her how much you lover her and whant to be with her. ^_^
start out as friends. get to know her more and make sure that she really is the one that you want to try and win. Some girls will be fake, so watch out. Just be straight forward and ask her to do something with some of your friends and you, then move into one on one dating.
Think of how you yourself would want to be approached, and go from there. Call her and ask her out on a date.. or better yet see her in person and ask her. Plan a really nice night (or day), be honest and most of all be yourself... if your shy it's ok... Contrary to what alot of women on here suggest, we do like to be courted... flowers, long conversations, being cherished and appreciated. You sound like your already on the right track, just take the risk and give her a call. Peace.
dont u know how to be a gentleman it always works
Ever tried giving her flowers on Valentine's Day, her birthday?
the way i think is best is to first have a whole group of people together, along with you and her so conversation would be casual and you'll have something to talk about.
If you have been around her for years, you must know what she likes. Send/ give her something that will make her smile. That will break the ice and give you an idea of where to go from there.
What do you find so special about her? I would just tell her in honest words. As a woman, I would love to hear a man tell me sincerely what he likes about me- especially if he's like me for a while. I know it's got to go deeper than looks.
Next- what is her soft spot? What she would respond to? I know after years, you would know. Does she like art galleries, concerts, demolition derbies, sports games, arcades, poetry readings? Get tickets or find out about something going on soon and invite her.
P.S.- you might want to consider learning how to spell (it's dilemma, not delima). Major turn-off to any intelligent woman.
Good Luck!
um what I find attractive in a man is one who is himself n does not use stupid lines.try saying hi, I would like 2 get 2 know u.can we go have coffee.keep it simple,direct n be urself.
be funny. not gross humor like fart jokes but more of a subdued silly
Nothing fancy. Just tell her you've admired her for years and think she's very special. Sincerity always wins out.
How about ';Hello, can we talk a minute';? Then just e yourself. That's better than any pickup line. As a woman. I'd go for that one.
Let me give ALL OF THE MEN IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE..some advice. Pick up lines are only effective from the ages 10-15. Very rarely will a man use a pick up line and the woman accepts it. Just find out what she is interested in and talk about it.
OK,GET TO KNOW HER ASK HER QUESTION ABOUT WHAT DOES SHE LIKES OR DOES SHE ONE DAY WANT TO HANG I DON'T KNOW MAYBE A MOVIE OR GOT TO EAT SOME WHERE TRY TO FIGURE OUT IF SHE LIKES YOU OR TRY TO KNOW SOME SIGNS LIKE MAKING EYE CONTACT OR MAKING HER LAUGH OR IF SHE SMILES SO MUCH AT YOU. I hope this help love Baby Girl
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