Advice? This summer I dated a guy who lives in DC. I live in NY. There was great chemistry but didn't work out?

I felt there was someone else in his life there and ended it, he said he accepted because he didn't believe long distance relationships could work. Now he contacts me and says he still loves me, but confesses he always had a relationship there (that was starting around the same time as we met). He says they are together but without much chemistry.





At this point I don't want this person because he is a cheater. But I am not sure if I am justified in my anger towards him. Can his explanation be true? Would one go for what is close by as opposed to what his heart truly prefers but far away? I think if he really loved me the distance was not too far and he couldn't have been with another woman.





Please share your thoughts on this, thanks..Advice? This summer I dated a guy who lives in DC. I live in NY. There was great chemistry but didn't work out?
If it were me I would be so damned mad at him my eyes would be crossed!!! The tenacity of him calling me with a gf at side. This validates his thinking. Long dist relationships don't work.Advice? This summer I dated a guy who lives in DC. I live in NY. There was great chemistry but didn't work out?
What else do you want? He confessed and he also expressed his deepest concerns about long distance relationship.





Yes, his explanation is reasonable given the vast info. And,





Yes, if he is truly blind in relationship not to have any worry of long distance relationship...Then long distance really doesn't matter and he couldn't have been with other woman.





But, I guess He wasn't blind when he saw you and the distance between you and him and those long and lonely nights without you by his side to comfort him and warm him up with intimacy...So he has to have some side action....It's just natural.
You said it yourself, you don't want him. So why waste your time on him or even on the thought of ';taking him back';? Happily move on!