we dated for acouple of months after her and her boyfriend broke up but in the end she decided to go back to him. I was going to stop talking to her all together but she still called me and I still wanted to talk. I told her i feel like were together and she said the same thing. I really do like her but she recently did something to me that really turned me off and said things that gave me red flags. She basically ditched me on my bday and went to meet up with boyfriend and told me she would come back or at least call me back to tell me if she can come. She never returned my call that night and went to sleep god knows where she claims her house but w/e and had class in the morning but never called me the next day to apologize and i proceeded to text her the next day saying basically wow an amazed what she did to me. and proceeded to go tell her to go F her self and only cares about herself. We got into an arguement and said to me you gave me a red flag when you told me that and has to really think ';about us';. So i got scared when she said that and i thought i should just end it right there and tell her to stop talking for now to me. She said i was ****** up and that we couldnt make our relationship work if we were ever in one. That relationships you dont run away from problems you try to make it work... I basically laughed at this because i said to her what relationship? we were never in one so how can i run away to our problems. You cant have two different people that it does not wrok that way. she said i was abadoning her and told her we can only become friends. She then texted me and said to me oh how she could not believable me. Uhh any advice to get her off my back... she continues to cal and text me and i feel like responding i cant do this anymore. She has me as her back up and dosent want to break up with her boyfreind and yet tell me she loves me but when in fact i know she loves the other guy too. SHe tells me i cant be with other girls because she would not talk to me. And i think thats messed up that we still could not talk adn be friends if that was to happen. There was also another that bother me she said that if they ever broke up and she was with me that her boyfriend would still call her. THey known each other for 3 years while I known her for almost 6 months. I dont know what to do i want to be with her but i cant put myself through this anymore because i feel like im going insane and i cant function or do school work im in college btw and hang out with my friends. Personally i dont want her out of my life because i care about her that much but i cant wait around for her forever and she does not watn to be wtih me fully by leaving her boyfriend for me. So many problems. Yes she has cheated on him with me if your wondering.Complicated situation with girl i dated...need help and advice.?
You said it correct the first time, all she cares about is herself. Right now she has the best of her little world. Two guys that think they love her and right now she is in heaven at that idea of having both.
Look, one part of you wants her in your life, another sees her for what she is. Do yourself a favor and put her in her place and tell her to stay the F away from you and end even the thought of a friendship with her.
If she cheated on him and returned only a short time after she will do worse to you.
She has problems, my guess is a self esteem problem and doesn't like herself and needs to be told she is loved often
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