Possibility of ex dating a friend, need advice?

My ex has been talking to one of my friends a lot lately and they have hung out a couple of times. Once was at the movies. I've told her how i feel about it and she said that she respects it and the friend line won't be crossed. the only problem is that i don't trust either one. their back and forth on myspace (i know its immature to even consider that a valid factor in all of this) is suspicious at best. Should i ask her not to hang out with him anymore and vice versa? Like if it doesn't work with her should I tell him? I'm really not cool with any of this and I'll do whatever I need to to prevent it.Possibility of ex dating a friend, need advice?
Calling one of them a friend and then saying you don't trust her is kind of cancelling out both statements.





If they like each other, it shouldn't bother you. If there's something she needs to know about him then tell her. Otherwise, butt out.Possibility of ex dating a friend, need advice?
I would kick them both to the curb and move on with my life. Life is just too short to have that much drama. If you do not trust either of them, why even bother with caring what they do?





It seems to me you are hanging on to him and are having trouble letting go. If you continue, you will worry yourself sick about it. Really, I'd just dump them both! Make new friends, and I'm sure a GREAT guy will come along. Save yourself more grief. If you do not drop this now, you will be in for more heartache later, and then you will realize how much time, and emotional energy you have wasted. I know it is tough to let go, but you will be much better in the long run. You have more self worth than to continue. Agree?
It sounds weird but yeah i have been in this position before usually the only time people object to their ex's dating a friend in not crossing the friend line because you should do what ever to keep your friends happy but it's usually because you still have feelings for your ex. Maybe he is going after her because after all you guys are friends so you are probably a lot alike so maybe if he cant have you he wants the next best thing which would be her.. Idk if you gave me some more details it would be easier to help you like who broke up with who and why unless thats to personal