So i'm dating this girl, any advice to give?

what i know :We're fairly affectionate in public, i know she likes me, and i know shes been hurt before by some other dude.





Story: we're at a friends house and late at night she'll kiss me goodnight and go into the bedroom. I excuse myself from the group im in and go in the bedroom. As soon as i come in she turns away from the door, wont look at me, and just seems closed off from me when i try and get close or talk to her.





Now im usually pretty good at reading signs from others but this just confuses me. anyone got an idea on y this happens and what to do about it. Its actually happened 3 times and i am actually getting ready to through in the towel. I am hoping not to lose this one because instead of me going out to get to know her, it was kinda the other way around and to me that makes a world of difference. So i'm dating this girl, any advice to give?
she wants sexSo i'm dating this girl, any advice to give?
she probably doesnt want to go all out cus she might be scared that you are gonna hurt her just like the guy before you so just be open towards her and maybe the relationship just needs some time. tell her that if she ever needs to talk to anyone, that you are always available. make sure she trusts you. that is very important!!!!





Hope it helps!
how long have u been together? i dont know her story but maybe she isnt ready for sleeping with another guy u shouldnt get mad instead u should listen to her and calm her down if u really like her..
Hi dear any way try more and more aproch her so will suceed
This may sound weird, but she sounds like one of those girls who sort of had a traumatic experience like getting raped in a way. You said she's been ';hurt before by some other dude,'; who knows what kind of ';hurt'; that meant. The fact that she turns away from the door and won't look at you, seems like she's hiding from something bad that happened before. I know it sounds weird, but if a girl wants it, then she wants it. Some play other games and say ';oh nvm i can't do this,'; but your girlfriend just sounds frightened when you come into the room. If you don't want to lose her, go do some serious talking with her.