I need some advice. I am 39 yrs old, been married twice. How do I begin dating again?

I have realized that my first boyfriend who was my first husband, is the real love of my life. BUT he's remarried to someone. We still have a ';look'; for each other but I know he's off limits, as I would NEVER mess around with a married man, even if I do love him with everything I am! HOW do I get on with my life and find someone else to love. I'm so scared of growing old alone! I'm not into the bar scene, I'm too scared to go into internet dating, I don't go out much. I have no idea where to even MEET single men. HELP?I need some advice. I am 39 yrs old, been married twice. How do I begin dating again?
you know its funny cause that sounds just like me but i have somebody now.Even though you are a nervous person you just need to get out there and meet people,go out with friends and just have fun.I think you will find sombody.Oh and im still in love with my ex and i dont know how to get over that.I need some advice. I am 39 yrs old, been married twice. How do I begin dating again?
So you do not go looking.You need to make yourself available.Example:When you dress yourself up nice,How does it make you feel?Your confidence in yourself is a natural attraction.Now that I am single I dress up to go any where.Grocery Store,run arruns,girl anywhere.Girl you have to start with you.
At 39, dating should not be all that difficult.





First, you need to be emotionally available.





Second, internet dating is where lots of people are. You can be successful at this if you are careful.





Third, real life affords lots of opportunities. Be friendly and interested and you will be interesting to others.





Single men are everywhere. But try walking your dog or going grocery shopping or go to a laundromat or volunteer at a homeless shelter or get involved in politics or in your religion or in a softball or volleyball league or almost anything....





You can do it!
First,you must think,maybe you r not good at dating.But if your answer is';I'm good at dating'; GO WITH THE FLOW!!!
call me
GO CLUBBING
What do you like? Find things that are fun for you and join some clubs. Volunteer for places like the Red Cross doing events that men will be at. Relax and have fun and love your life single, before you know it, someone will come along.
depends where you live as to available options, but how to start is easy, you see, you like, you ask, you go out!!
Ask a good friend to set you up with someone and maybe you could do a double date together to make it less awkward. The first one will be the hardest though just remember that so if something goes wrong on the first date don't get discouraged. You have to really want to do this, though.
Wow your life is like mine I am in very much the same situation. You may try like Yahoo personals.
I think you should first tell him , even if he is married, how you feel, then pick the type of man your looking for.remember, if a man asks you out don't hesitate to say yes if you like him.