Ok So I have been with my boyfriend over 3 years and have know each other for 5 years. I have NEVER suspected any wrong doing from him .Our relationship has been great. I am now 3 months pregnant %26amp; He was more excited then me. We are so prepared %26amp; excited. Our sex life has been amazing freaking %26amp; spontanous, %26amp; hasn't changed since I became pregnant. Well the past month or so I havecaught him on sex dating websites. NOt like Yahoo personals or Match.com , it's like fling.com %26amp; adultfriendfinder.com, like sex personls, just finding someone to have a fling with. So I have seen his profiles %26amp; he hasn't sent any e-mails to anyone, like there is no communicating w/others on these sites, but he made profiles that said is was single. OK so if I wern't rpegnant I would leave, but I feel like I need to do something, but don't knw what to do..any advicePregnant %26amp; boyfriend on sexual dating sites,... need some advice ?
Create your own fake profile and email him on one of these sites. If he agrees to meet up, meet him there and bust him in the act. That way, he knows he's busted, can't say he was ';only looking';, and you can give him an ultimatum. ';Delete them all, or it's over';.Pregnant %26amp; boyfriend on sexual dating sites,... need some advice ?
He could be thinking about cheating or using the pictures the women have posted as like a porn site. You only know your relationship and what he maybe capable of. But you need to tell him you know he has a profile and that is enough for you not to trust him. Don't give him the benefit of the doubt because he hasn't emailed anyone because that's all it really takes the women on those sites are ready and willing they don't care he has a pregnant girlfriend.
Wow, I would confront him on this one, immediately and put a stop to it, asap. Seems odd that everything is going fine, then this. I would say don't stay because your pregnant, because in the end the baby will suffer in an unhappy home, however, I personally know that to be easier said than done. (I did leave... eventually) I would set an ultimatum. And if he doesn't want to stop or lies about then make your decision. Sorry to hear this, and Good Luck
what should i say about this, i think it's so casual, when most of the boys are at dating sites, check the sites, when the profile was created and is he really trying date with some body,
and love and date or the two different concepts,, don't think even if he dates with some one, he might have love for you for life.
Confirm whether he needs love---- date.
it might be understandable to you, he is around you before and after pregnancy, you will know the difference than any other
this is my suggestion.... Men who go and look at these sights just want to browse around and they have to make a profile for them to access pages, your man maybe a little nervous, so he is just looking around i would only make a big deal if you start finding him communicating and acting outta the norm... there are other ways to catch him too if your interested email me and i will let you know what you can do to keep a eye on him!
..That doesn't sound good at all. I think he may still want that ';freakish'; part in your relationship, and realizes now with a baby on the way, you may not be able to fufil everything, but who knows..you really need to confront him. I'd be furious if I found my husband looking at those sites, just b/c there's no emails, does not mean there isn't anything going on. Good Luck!
you need to confront him. for some reason when guys find out there girl is pregnant, they do 1 of 2 things. either become really super responsible or they become idiots and do everything wrong. I had to leave my now husband when i got pregnant because he was being stupid and wasnt thinking about me and the baby. good luck and I hope things work out for you!
I would ask him and be putting his a** in line tell him exactly how you feel , and tell him if he wants someone else you will leave and he will never see his baby we don't need a man to help us raise our babies its good to have but not a need its better to raise our babies alone than with a low life scum bag!!! Just because you have a baby by the guy doesn't mean you have to stay with him!!!
If he is on there ...it's only a matter of time before he cheats if he hasn't already. Living life like that is no way to live...constantly having to watch someone and worry that he is cheating. If you were smart you would just tell him to knock it off or it's over and either way he has to pay child support so be strong and give him the choice
i think you need to have a serious talk with him soon! some guys seem to lose interest in their wives or girlfriends when they are pregnant so this might be happening with your man and you need to get to the bottom of it! i wish you luck and if he doesnt change then i suggest you leave him there is no need for you to be put in a postion like that you deserve a good man in your life and so does your baby!
From what you said, it doesnt sound like he could possibly have a good explanation. That's definitely not appropriate...especially when you're carrying his baby! You definitely need to talk to him about it, but even if you are pregnant, leaving might be the best thing if nothing changes.
talk to him he could just wanna see whats out there...its not doin any harm but i can see where your coming from y you be upset he could just wanna talk to someone that hes not connected with which is y he doesnt go on the match.com or anything to actually find someone ya know....but just talk to him
I would confront him about it. Sounds weird that everything seems fine.... Maybe it's just like porn for him. I don't know, I'd just talk to him about it and see what's going on.
He could be insecure and simply trying to find out if he's still got it. It;s a long way from actually doing it and putting a profile on the internet.
Seems like he might be thinking about cheating, but hesitating. Confront him about it, but don't blow up at him right away.
How did you find out about these? I would honestly confront him immediately. He better have a damn good explanation. Good luck!
If my boyfriend did that I would kill him. That is totally immature and inappropriate.
i had the same thing happen with my boyfriend when i was pregnant.
becacuse we share email address' and the fact that im the office lady for his roffing company i had access to his email account, well one day i was checking the emails and saw a email from a dating website, i clicked on it and found out that he had signed up and made a profile stating he was single he also went on to say the his ';ex girlfirend'; was a a nasty b****. i waited for him to get home before i said anything about it to him, i asked him when he signed up to the site he told me that he had singed up to it before we got together and that he had forgotten about being registered, funny thing is that the email address was new at the time as i had helped him set it up(dating website email were being sent to business) , i told him that if i EVER see emails from those sites again that he would NEVER see his son.
i watched him unregister for the websites and havent had any more emails from the sites
all i needed to do was give him a ultamatum
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