I'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?

we've been dating for about 3 months now.I ALWAYS SAY I TRUST EVERYONE ITS THE DEVIL IN THEM I DNT TRUST. he is very gentle and caring. he doesn't want to discuss his previous relationship because he says he doesnt want to remember the past..which i think is crap.he lives in italy and i live in america. he bought me a ticket to visit him recently,i stayed at his house. i'm west-indian ..he's well known because he is a professional soccer player. most people say nigerians are scammers which i believe to be true. we talk every day web cam of by phone. i'm scared of not knowing him well enough and of the culture difference..other african women are very rude towards me when we are together in public..i dnt understand because even though i'm not african i consider myself to be black woman..will his family accept our relationship? ....my questions and statments are all over the place..i just need some advice





one more thing i'm also older than him..by 5 years..nigerian soccer players are said to reduce there age by 4 for a longer career so who knows if what he says is his correct age..I'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
You sound very ungrateful to start with,Im not an african or ******* nigerian but Im sure every country there is scammers and that part of the world specially nigeria it is loaded so all u can do is listen and watch.You better be careful


The age bit is hilarious the way u put it lol.I'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
Nigerians are scammers?





That's like saying I'm a thief just because I come from Doncaster!





Regards, Barclay