we've been dating for about 3 months now. he is very gentle and caring. he doesn't want to discuss his previous relationship because he says he doesnt want to remember the past..which i think is crap.he lives in italy and i live in america. he bought me a ticket to visit him recently,i stayed at his house. i'm west-indian ..he's well known because he is a professional soccer player. most people say nigerians are scammers which i believe to be true. we talk every day web cam of by phone. i'm scared of not knowing him well enough and of the culture difference..other african women are very rude towards me when we are together in public..i dnt understand because even though i'm not african i consider myself to be black woman..will his family accept our relationship? ....my questions and statments are all over the place..i just need some adviceI'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
Several questions:
1. Are you in the market for a husband?
2. Do you regard this man as husband material?
3. Do you ever wish children?
4. Is he father material?
If you answer no to any of these, you are wasting your time... as my daddy always said, ';never shop in a store in which you intend to buy nothing.';
It appears you have real doubt about this guy. If you are just playing around? find, don't get pregnant.
If you are old enough to make a commitment, this guy doesn't seem to qualify.
Personal opinion: Run. Sounds like a typical scam to me.I'm dating a nigerian ..need advice?
if he isn't telling you the whole truth, how can you trust you actually HAVE a relationship and you aren't just a bit of fun...
dermalogica
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