Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?

Okay, i've hear mixed reactions from the few people i've told.


I'm 17 and im a Sr in high school, i have this male friend of mine that i've known for awhile. Were not like best friends but i know him and such. Well he has a sister who is in 8th grade, and kind as a joke i started talking to her, and we started talking like a month or more ago i dont really remember... well today he texts me saying ';please don't have sex with my sister... it would be weird'; and i never told him i was talking to her and apparently she said something to him. And Im not saying i would do that (i wouldn't shes to young for that) but she ovisously was saying something that would make him think that.


I've been with a decent amount of girls two of which were for a year or longer, and idk i think im starting to like her..... What do you guys think? its only like three years difference (my parents are 4 years apart) but would it be wrong to at least give it a try? dating that is, or at least hangout more just me and her. They also live really close to me.Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?
Ive seen really mature girls even at age twelve. Im 19, and I can say that because I just graduated high school not long ago. Although she may be mature for her age, sex is out of the question of course. You seem really respectful when you say that shes too young for sex, so I don't think its weird. I think you should talk to her brother and let him know that you have no intentions to have sex with her. Let him know that. As for her, I think you should hang out with her a little more and talk to her more as well. See how things go. Take things slow because rushing a decision is most of the time the worst decision. I don't think you are doing anything wrong. Good luck!Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?
ok, so for you that might not be a big deal, but for her being that much younger, it might be, if you find that you are truly starting to like her, maybe give it a try but it sounds like your really unsure so i wouldn't risk that, plus that would be extremely awkward for your friend, and i think that a friendship is a lot more important than a relationship...think about it...
You are breaking a major rule of the bro code.





Basically you can't date a man's sister if you've known him more than 24 hours. It's a written rule that you're trying break. These rules were established so we don't go into the @$$hole zone. You can try if you like but tread lightly. I think it'd be better if you severed the relationship and found someone who isn't your friend's sister.
There is nothing wrong with you being a couple of years younger than her and wanting to date this girl. By all means, if you like her and think there is a good future as a couple for you, then yes. But because she is underage, do not have sex with her. That would be wrong.


Good luck.
it's not wrong to try (:


start hanging out with her, but don't have sex, she's only in eighth.


but right now, it'll seem weird if you date since she isn't in highschool and next year you'll be graduated, dating a frwshman.
It'd be okay to hang out but I'd definitely talk to your friend about anything further and don't have sex she's in 8th grade that's gross


Good Luck
ok having sex would be wierd now but i dont really think that it would be wrong to date her i mean my parents are 10 yrs apart
oooo tread water cautiously here buddy. distance yourself from the chick, and cool things over with the bro.
You may aswell go for it


Its not tht bigger age dif


But talk to yr friend first!
DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HER!! Don't get into a relationship with her. You're graduating and she's only a freshman
Yes it would be wrong.
my parents and 14 years apart


it's not weird at all
totally wrong you would be in da jail.................
ask her out
Well, the best thing you could do is wait my friend. She is barely getting into the game of love and romance. She will need time to mature into a woman, and if you did date her you would be robbing her of her childhood. Plus, you are about to venture into the world of becoming an adult and be in a new world yourself, especially if you are going to college. Anyways, step back and wait many years (4 min). If those feelings are still there between you, then you both will be mature and have a true chance at something. Good luck at where ever this heads, bro
There is a code in high school. You do not date your friends, siblings. That is just awkward!! Plus this girl is in Middle School, YOUR in high school?? Can we all say Eeeewwwww?? She is way to young for you, and I think you know this.


Be her friend, but do not let it go beyond that. Try to find a girl around your age...


Beside if you did start to date this girl, like her etc. and it did not work out, who do you think this girl is going to go to? Her brother, and who is going to want to rearrange your face? Her brother. LoL
Speaking as someone on the outside I wouldn't say 100% it's wrong I mean yes it is only 3 years apart, but still the girl is just beginning to be a teenager. You're 17 and know what to expect out of the world so far. Her world right now is just friends and homework. She may feel like she is ready to be in a relationship with you but her emotional age maybe saying something different. If you have talked to different people about this it just seems like you are going around trying to get the answer you want. Personally if I had a 14 year old daughter I wouldn't let her be with someone older.
do you want to be in a relationship without sex is the question? because that is what it would be for a fair time and she might feel under prsssure just because your older plus she is probs curious anyway (I dont know how old 8th grade is, sorry) first step is to talk to your mate, if he would be uncomfortable get out of there before you get too attatched or she does. If he's ok with it and you want a sensitive relationshio then go for it, it sounds healthy :)





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Come back when she's 18....She has no idea of what she wants out of life. Even if it wasn't oddly pervy to be thinking of dating/having sex with a 13 or 14 year old, its a terrible age to try to make a relationship with someone. I'd not the age difference, its the AGE itself. She's mentally and emotionally a child and just getting to know herself. She will project all kinds of images on you, probably as being some kind of superhero (which is flattering, but hard to sustain a stable relationship out of). That might be why you like the attention, but it means she doesn't want you for you ...she is at the age where she thinks every guy is a potential Prince Charming. Not only does this not give you a serious girlfriend who knows what she wants ... it also sets you up to crush her and mess up her idea of what men really are.





You are going to want a sexual relationship with the girl you're dating, be honest. You'll say you don't care, but so many girls get pressured into having sex with an older guy when they are only 14 or so and it never ends well. The guy might not even realize how much more immature she is because he is flattered by her worship.
Age isn't something you can stamp on love.


But I don't know if her parents would approve. They might think that you're using her and believe you've got old, lonely and desperate.


You could try talking to her and hanging out, but maybe you should work your way up.. she's only in 8th grade, she's probably relationship clueless.


Not to mention, you could ruin your friendship with her brother.. but I guess if you're friends and not THAT close, than I guess it's not a big deal :)


anyways, goodluck!