Thursday, July 29, 2010

Need advice your advice: I've been dating this guy for two weeks?

We have been on five dates so far and we have gotten intimate since we knew each other for a while. My question is how many times do you think is fair for a guy to call or see a girl is dating. I feel that since he had been in a long distance relationship (he saw her once a month), he dodens't feel the need to see me more than two times a week.. He has a busy schedule but i feel if he really likes me, he would commit a little more time with me.


What do you think?


Thanks a lot!Need advice your advice: I've been dating this guy for two weeks?
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Not knowing all the ramifications of your relationship, but from the outside looking in, he is not THAT into you. I mean, mission accomplished with him. He got that pu$$y. And he may feel you certainly are into him and ain't going nowhere. So, he don't have to do more. Why buy the cow, if you have someone begging you to use it free? Think about it logically. If there is something or someone you really like, you try to create situations where you can do it or meet them as much as possible. Remember when you 1st got your driving license? You would ';invent'; way to get behind the wheel, to go drive the car. If you feel that maybe when he is away it is not just work he is doing but playing the field, maybe so. But you are just dating. You might have to face the fact that you are a little more than a close friend with benefits at the moment. Try not being so available and see if he notice. You made one of the biggest mistakes most girls make. You give it up to quick. If you really want a guy who is in it for you, you have to make him put work in. But so many girls equate sex with how much they are loved, that they find themselves humped and dumped more times than clouds blow overhead.Need advice your advice: I've been dating this guy for two weeks?
He doesn't need to put the effort into seeing you. He's already slept with you after five dates. Why does he need to work it?
I get a feeling of insecurity in this relationship coming from you. I almost get the feeling that you want more from the relationship. Have you tried telling him? Do you want an exclusive relationship where you both see only each other? If you do, then you need to make this clear. Tell him you want an exclusive relationship with him so that you can both find out of you are made for one another. If he agrees, then you can add that you would like to see him at least once a week, for a day, etc., and you tell him your expectations as far as how much you would like to see him. If he agrees, then you know he is interested. If he disagrees, then you know that he only wants you as a friend.





If the latter is the case, then go on with your life and find another person who will give you what you want.
there is power in the pus$y but you have relinquished yours after five dates (it happens to the best of us) listen sweetie stop being a Velcro sticky by clinging to this guy. preoccupy yourself with something else until he contacts you for another date and if he does then slow things down miss hot pants so you can call the shots. it'll will be hard saying no especially if the sex was good but you have to if you want to build a relationship with him based on something a little more solid that isn't your back. good luck sweetie.
First of all-go get your own life. No guy wants a clingy girl that is gonna smother him. Two times a week is plenty when you first start dating.
to much of a good thing could be harmful. havent you heard absence makes the heart grow founder. and maybe he just wants to take things slower.
A guy should call and see his girlfriend at least once a day. Busy schedule or not he should make time for you if he cares about you.

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