I am casually dating someone but need advice on the next step.?

Ok, I am casually dating a guy who just got out of a very bad relationship that lasted four years. he told me in the beginning that he wanted casual dating and i thought i was fine with it. after a couple of weeks we had sex a couple times. we have been staying over each others' places about 3 times a week and became very close staying up all night talking and laying together. so of course i started getting feelings for him. his ex stalks him still and the other night she went crazy on him. now he is pulling away from me. i think because i make myself too accessible to him? i just like being with him because we have an incredible connection. now i dont know what to do. we were out last night and he acts different when we are out then together alone. i met him through friends so its awkward for them now. i have to decided to not call or text him for a couple of days. but what should i do?i really like him. he told my friend that i make myself too accessible.i am not good at dating HELP!I am casually dating someone but need advice on the next step.?
First of all, never add a third party into any of your relationships. It only makes things even more complicated.





Your boyfriend is in need some breathing room. He's maybe feeling overwhelmed with you always there and a crazy ex stalking him. I'm not blaming you. It's just that you're all he's seeing for the most part and sometimes people just want to be alone sometimes to keep their sanity. Nothing, necessarily, has to be wrong. I also think you guys rushed into this so quickly. It's really close to him breaking up with the ex. Sometimes it's not so cut and dry when you've been in a relationship for that length of time. He needs time to deal with her and sort through his feelings. Just let him know that you're going to give him time and space to do what he needs to do, and that you're there for him if he needs you.





I hope your in it for the long haul because this may take awhile. If you really want this, don't give in but this could be painful for you and him. Be strong and good luck.I am casually dating someone but need advice on the next step.?
What ever you do, do not hook up with a guy that just got out of a relationship.


When he was spending time with you, it was a distraction to keep him from dealing with issues with his ex.


And if she is stalking him, then maybe they are still involved.





You may have been giving 110% of yourself to a ';relationship'; that he just wasn't ready for.
In the future don't sleep with someone after 2 weeks and this kind of thing won't happen.
Yes, the situation is a bit tense right now. If he's aware of your feelings for him, you will have him. Let him sort thru with his ex right now. Surely you don't want to be seen as a rebound. Give him some room to gander with this mad woman, then things will work out for you both. Good luck.
don't think its a good idea to have sex with a guy u knew for two weeks.....and talk to him about it.......see how he feels
Tell him how u feel try hard to make him to forget about his ex. All he needs right now is a little comfort and support. He's probably still crushed about his breakup with his ex. they were probably really tight u know.