Thursday, July 29, 2010

Dating advice please?

I been dating around recently but its all ended in me feeling terrible about things? i mean i havent slept with either of these guys but ive made out and/or messed around a bit. one guy ive known since i was little and the other i met yesterday. they are both really sweet but i feel so guilty about doing ANYTHING with these guys, like dirty? this might come from my last abusive relationship where he made me feel terrible about any and all hookups. im not easy but i really think these guys are dating material and sweet and ive been on dates with them. i need advice/opinions? thanks.Dating advice please?
pick one dont juggle to guys. It sucks that you had to go through an abusive relationship, but juggling with more than 1 guy(or girl for guys) is emotionally abusing to either one of them, both of them, or all three of you. Try to go on a couple more dates with each to see which one you are gonna pick, if you dont want to lose the other try to keep him in your life as a friend if sh*t falls through. i would suggest to drop one of them somewhat soon before you get to attached emotionally to both of them cuz that can only result in pain.Dating advice please?
talk to the one you've known for a long time, tellhim your sad about an abusive relationship and see how he responds, if he says nothing start to cry,i know it sounds bad but this will let yu know if he cares enough to help, after that tell him you wouldlike to lay off any phyysical stuff for a while until you're ready, he shoud understand and if he doesn't go to the new guy
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