20 year old seeking dating advice?

Got out of a 4 year relationship, found myself flirting with this woman and realized I should be honest with myself and end things on a good term since I wasn't as happy as I should be, leaving hope for the future.





I went on several dating sites, and the woman on there are shallow; that or I'm jealous because I don't look like a thug or convicted serial rapist. I really want to have a woman to love. All the woman that have talked to me somewhat online haven't responded after a short conversation or two. Women %26amp; men, advice?20 year old seeking dating advice?
My cousin belongs to several different online dating services and she says the same thing about men that you say about women.





I may be wrong, but I think most of the folks who use those things are ';serial daters'; and it seems that dishonesty is almost a given. My advice would be to let your friends know that you are back on the market, take a class, join a gym, find a church with a singles group if you are a believer, and never turn down a wedding invitation - great place to meet people and they are (almost) always fun, positive affairs.





Most of all, RELAX - you're young; concentrate on learning more about who you are, what makes you happy, what your goals are, etc. I know it's a cliche, but it's a cliche firmly based in reality; the best relationships present themselves when you're not obssessed with finding one.





Good luck!20 year old seeking dating advice?
Take some time to figure out who you are. There is nothing hotter than a guy who can say, '; this is who I am, if you don't like it you can go f**k yourself.'; and don't try to be overly nice, it seems more ';hey, I want to be your best friend and NEVER touch you sexually.'; all I'm saying is know who you are.
girls are the new ';guys'; they are just looking to bust a nut take advantage of it you just got out off a relationship. get your rocks off a little before you decide to commit again
Well you got out of a 4 year relationship so yeah things are going to be tough for you. First off, dating sites dont really do anything much so yeah. I suggest you give 2 weeks and fully get over your ex girlfriend and are ready to date again. When your confident, go to some bars and nightclubs and there should be women there.
maybe a dating site isn't right for you
I have no faith whatsoever in on line dating or meetings.. the best of relationships always grow out of shared interest, in real life situations..so go to a class about some subject you love, week after week, and there you'll slowly grow to know that group of new people..


Go to anyplace regularly at the same time...a gym...a class, a church, a park , or even a store to shop, and slowly , you'll meet real people, that you have something in common with...


Stop using your computer to meet people. The very paradigm of intimacy is violated by this avenue you are attempting.. Can you see what I'm saying?
Don't look so hard. I tried for four months to conviene my friend I didn't want to be set up with her other friend. We both had mutual feelings of no, I don't want to be set up.





Guess what neither of us were looking for romance/love, but it found us. Thanks to a match maker.
i think your desperation can be smelt from a mile away... you have it take it easy. you're probably suffering from co-dependency, having lost long term, major emotional support. you're only 20, doubt you've had life figured out. in time to come, you'll probably realize bachelorhood has its plus points. meanwhile, you can still love your family and friends.