Last night U talked to a guy that I like while I was at my guy friends. My guy friend invited him to come out to the club with us and he said he wasnt sure because he was going ot another club. Well my friend handed me the phone and I asked the guy I like to come to the club we were going to. He said he would and he needed to change his clothes. He is extreamly nice and has always been very respectful. He told me hwile on the phone that he really likes me a lot and that he would love to come out with me tonight and to give him 30 mins to get to where I was. So I did. 45 mins later he is a no show so I call him back and say ';Everyone is waiting adn ready to go.'; He says he is seven minutes away and his friend was driving and he will see me shortly. Well he never showed and never answered his phone again. I left him a message telling him I appreciate him making me wait and look like an idiot and left it at that. What should be the next step? Do you think he is NOT interested?Dating Advice Please?
You shouldn't count him as not interested just yet. Yes what he did to you was wrong, but he might not have done it on purpose. You should wait a day or two so feelings relax some. Then just call him and talk to him about it and about your feelings. Talking one on one never fails to give result to any relationship question. Good luck and I'm sure you will find a great guyDating Advice Please?
well, I would say, the next step is his. Not yours. And i hope it is that he wants to say sorry. If not, I don't think he likes you and I think you should want to be liked by him either.
Or I am just totally confused here.
just be your self
Yeah he's definatly not interested, he also appears to be an asshole. Let it go, odds are if the stood you up once he'll do it agian.
If a guy is interested in you he'll show up.
Talk to him find out what happened. and dont jump to conclusions things happen
Well its not a definite no. Wait a couple of days and see if he messages. Don't try and contact him. If he wants you then he WILL contact you. You've done enough.
In the meantime, just go out and enjoy yourself, socialise, do things etc... so if he does call then you have things to talk about and it won't make you seem desperate, and if he doesn't call then you won't care because you'll be out doing new things and meeting heaps of new awesome people.
I think he wouldn't hav said he likes you if he didn't. Just forget about it, don't feel bad and don't think about it. And don't send another message or call. Remember you've done all you can and he's an *** for making you wait just to not show up.
All you can do is wait and time will tell. If he hasnt called or messaged by a couple of days time I would say it's a good idea to forget it. He's not worth it.
Don't bother. If he liked you he would have been there.
i think he's a jerk for standing you up. Make sure you let him know that and maybe find some one else who wants to be with you.
No I think he is in to you, as evidenced by him changing his clothes, however I think he has some terrible friends... One more shot you should give him , yes...(yoda reference...) Good Luck...
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