Guys advice...after 3 dates...is he forreal or a player?

We have been on 3 dates, and on all those three dates- he paid 4 everyting. I always offer to pay, but he seems kinda bothered by it, so he pays for the dinner, movie and the snacks and stuff.So after the first 2 dates, we haven't kiss. and in between dates, he only contact after a week later. after the first 2 dates, he txt me sat night 2 make plans for monday, ( Monday is his only day off, he works 2 jobs...or so he says).





LAst MOnday (3rd date) was alot of fun. he actually grab my hand @ movies, kiss my forehead, carry me to the car, and just kept touching my hair and face. He took a pic of me eating on his iphone =) He even let me drive his car to the movie lol. during the car ride back home, he actually held my hand! He was being affectionate on this DATE, totally different than other 2. At the end of the night, it seem like he wanted to kiss me but did not, so i made the move to kiss him, but it was just 4 a sec, then i went home.So, i havent seen him since Monday, and he has not contact me at all since then, which is what he normally does anyways.





So my Q's did i scare him off? what does it mean when a guy pays 4 everything, but then doesn't contact you until he want tosee you? He only contacts me when he wants to see me and we usually go eat, and sometimes a week would go by and then i hear from him asking to go eat. AND no there is no sex, we just barely kiss and i made the move.Guys advice...after 3 dates...is he forreal or a player?
As a guy, my interpretation is that he does not want to be too pushy. Guys who work 2 jobs do not have time for games. He just wants a girl and he is not trying to look desperate by calling you too many times per week and so on.





Guys that play women for sex know how to pick out the women. There is something about the ones that they pick out and only some guys have that sixth sense of picking out the girl they can use for sex. I lack that sixth sense and so does that guy you're going out on dates with.Guys advice...after 3 dates...is he forreal or a player?
been there done that and let this be a lesson learned they all lie he wanted to sex and you ddint offer it that is what i was told that is all they want is sex when will woman get a clue