I am aware that girls are attracted to jerks for many reasons and tend to shrug off the ubiquitous, boring nice guys of society. I found success in attracting girls by adapting certain jerkish qualities (not to the point of a dysfunctional personality, though) but all of the girls had boyfriends already. I am very tired of this scenario and feel that if I don't be more agressive in my pursuits I will be lonely for the rest of my life. However, it is beyond my moral capability to pursue sex only for the purpose of sex. This is my greatest weakness because many women are turned off by this level of depth when I pursue a relationship. I would love it so much if I didn't care about success with women at all, but unfortunately I do. I am only 17 (going to college next year @ IU) but feel like a complete moron because I haven't been as successful with women as other guys with sub-par intelligence or more popularity. I would almost rather avoid the issue until I am out of college. Ideas?If ';be yourself'; is the best advice for this sad dating world, should I quit dating until I'm 30?
Yes, don't force it. You'll meet more mature women as you grow older and who'll like you because you are a nice guy.If ';be yourself'; is the best advice for this sad dating world, should I quit dating until I'm 30?
You are a smart person and being 17 youre still small and there is plenty of time to meet the right person who will appreciate you.
Ill be raining girls in university my dear friend.
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